> It seems rather insensitive to ruminate on future men's loss of sex because of sexual abuse. > This entire comment does not consider the women's suffering and

> It seems rather insensitive to ruminate on future men's loss of sex because of sexual abuse. > This entire comment does not consider the women's suffering and loss in any capacity due to abuse. It doesn't indeed. Because pain isn't a zero-sum game. At a funeral, the grief of a friend doesn't take anything away from the grief of the widow.