When I experienced similar situations, it usually was because the big picture wasn't right. Specific small details could irritate me to no end, but they weren't

When I experienced similar situations, it usually was because the big picture wasn't right. Specific small details could irritate me to no end, but they weren't really the source of my frustration. For me, these situations were resolved by moving on and/or changing some aspects of my life. Not saying this necessarily applies to you; just something to consider.