Yes, I would describe that as a pretty common human failing. Human societies are collaborative by nature, and you are likely blind to the situations in which yo

Yes, I would describe that as a pretty common human failing. Human societies are collaborative by nature, and you are likely blind to the situations in which you are "carried" by others, despite being hyper-attuned to situations in which you feel you are "carrying" disproportionate weight. People's lives not being ruined every time they're not useful is a feature, not a bug, of membership in most functioning human groups, and balking at this desirable property when it benefits others is indeed something I associate with children