"How does this “harm users”?" I don't know how sound this argument is but for me, as a non-Apple user I think I am harmed by people using iMessage, I can't tex

"How does this “harm users”?" I don't know how sound this argument is but for me, as a non-Apple user I think I am harmed by people using iMessage, I can't text them without accidentally ending up in that technology ecosystem. I can get 15 context-free messages from other participants in an iMessage group chat. I freaking hate it. If it was clear that iMessage is not SMS then that same person wouldn't send an iMessage group message they would send a mass text, but they don't. I can't force that person to so my SMS in box currently has 15 messages at the top that read "Yes", "No", "Out", "Maybe", "My kid has dance so I will be late", "Sorry man, take me off this list Thursdays are no good for me now"... etc. It sucks.