I am careful on what side I am favouring. There is Apple, a company known for its golden cage system and then there are the telcos with their strange extra feat

I am careful on what side I am favouring. There is Apple, a company known for its golden cage system and then there are the telcos with their strange extra features. In the end, I want to have a clean network. And that means no private relay for 50% of mobile users and no telcos screwing my DNS, headers, zero rate my traffic whatever. Seems like I am loose-loose situation to me.