It's obvious OP is getting onboarded by a company with no or a borked onboarding process - I get that it's red flag but the entire writeup came off whiny to me.

It's obvious OP is getting onboarded by a company with no or a borked onboarding process - I get that it's red flag but the entire writeup came off whiny to me. I realize "high maintenance" has a negative connotation... but it has nothing to do with self respect. Admittedly it's not a popular view but that was my honest feedback.