You're not alone. Positivity is not a personality trait and I seriously question the competence of ideas or people who compensate for something with positivity.

You're not alone. Positivity is not a personality trait and I seriously question the competence of ideas or people who compensate for something with positivity. Your best friends will hurt you small now to prevent you from being an idiot in the future and causing tenfold damage be it socially or otherwise. I consider friends "too positive" to have given me such warnings as flawed.