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Having a mortgage isn't an accomplishment, it's a liability. It would be expensive and stressful to downsize our biggest expense, and unexpected repairs blew a

Having a mortgage isn't an accomplishment, it's a liability. It would be expensive and stressful to downsize our biggest expense, and unexpected repairs blew a huge hole in our household budget. I'm well-compensated for now, but how long can I realistically keep it up? The team hasn't done a great job supporting me, but they deliver on their commitments and the individual team members are extremely competent.

rkk3 5y ago
> unexpected repairs blew a huge hole in our household budget. Yeah that's unfortunate, and maintenance & repairs can cancel out some of the price appreciation as well. But in general it sounds like you are doing extremely well personally and professionally and are going out of your way to tell yourself stories about how things are going wrong. > The team hasn't done a great job supporting me, but they deliver on their commitments and the individual team members are extremely competent. Your lack of onboarding reflects extremely poorly on them & their process, not yourself. They made let's say at this point an 100k investment in you with what sounds like zero visibility & process. > I'm well-compensated for now, but how long can I realistically keep it up? I would probably just start looking for another job, "dream jobs" aren't always what they are cut out to be and there is no reason to tie yourself to this one. They will not be so sentimental.