Not sure where you're getting this from in the article. The author never once implies that he quit his job to court this woman (although elsewhere on the site h

Not sure where you're getting this from in the article. The author never once implies that he quit his job to court this woman (although elsewhere on the site he says he wanted to take the time to find a wife, still doesn't imply being owed anything) and there's nothing here along the lines of "I sacrificed my job to spend more time on her and she'd better notice." There are men like that, and women too, and it's bad, but I'm not seeing this from the author of the article at all.