I don't know if it's sad. Realizing this is not going to change, but one can change one's own outlook on it. Currently, I use it as a filter: if I see this in a

I don't know if it's sad. Realizing this is not going to change, but one can change one's own outlook on it. Currently, I use it as a filter: if I see this in a discussion, I know there's nothing for me to learn. And people show their 'true' colors, when they bite on these easy and emotional pseudo-discussions. So I have a free filter that works really well, and I don't have to do anything for it. :)