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I like how you perform the status move of saying that these things come to you without conscious effort, that you just are yourself and women are automatically
by barry-cotter 5y ago
I like how you perform the status move of saying that these things come to you without conscious effort, that you just are yourself and women are automatically attracted to you. Very subtle.
- SkipperCat 5y agoNope, I'm not talking about myself. I'm talking about the behavior of some people who thing women "owe" them romance because they perform specific tasks. In this case, it was quitting his job. For many years in the past women have been treated as property, traded off in marriages for family gain. Not just in history but also right now in Afghanistan, women are being sold due to financial calamity. The writer's action of quitting his job can be seen that he gave up something and therefore deserves her affection. Very subtle.
- betwixthewires 5y agoNot sure where you're getting this from in the article. The author never once implies that he quit his job to court this woman (although elsewhere on the site he says he wanted to take the time to find a wife, still doesn't imply being owed anything) and there's nothing here along the lines of "I sacrificed my job to spend more time on her and she'd better notice." There are men like that, and women too, and it's bad, but I'm not seeing this from the author of the article at all.