> What a relationships revolve around getting loaded, they're really fun, at least for a little while, but those really aren't friends. I have friends that hav

> What a relationships revolve around getting loaded, they're really fun, at least for a little while, but those really aren't friends. I have friends that have groups like this. They joined frats in college and still hang out with their frat bros regularly, drinking almost every weekend. I join on occasion, but I'm not on their "call list" or whatever when they start making plans for parties. I don't mind. But what I do notice is that when they really need help, want to do something sober, or experience something new, I'm always on the list. I feel like I'm a friend to them when a friend is what they need. But their party friends are a totally different group.