I think the real majority of hate that I've seen for design patterns are when juniors go into a system looking to slap a design pattern anywhere they possibly c

I think the real majority of hate that I've seen for design patterns are when juniors go into a system looking to slap a design pattern anywhere they possibly can, quickly creating a ball of mud that is difficult to work with and figure out. At least that's been my experience (and I have to sadly admit I did the same when I was a junior without a mentor to help me through figuring out how to refactor my code into these patterns only when needed).