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When I stopped drinking 9 years ago, I discovered that those drinking buddies aren't actually friends. In fact, what I discovered was that almost everyone I kne
by msarrel 5y ago
When I stopped drinking 9 years ago, I discovered that those drinking buddies aren't actually friends. In fact, what I discovered was that almost everyone I knew wasn't actually my friend. What a relationships revolve around getting loaded, they're really fun, at least for a little while, but those really aren't friends. It's a hard decision to make. So much of our society revolves around alcohol and the acceptance of alcohol. Good luck!
- milkytron 5y ago> What a relationships revolve around getting loaded, they're really fun, at least for a little while, but those really aren't friends. I have friends that have groups like this. They joined frats in college and still hang out with their frat bros regularly, drinking almost every weekend. I join on occasion, but I'm not on their "call list" or whatever when they start making plans for parties. I don't mind. But what I do notice is that when they really need help, want to do something sober, or experience something new, I'm always on the list. I feel like I'm a friend to them when a friend is what they need. But their party friends are a totally different group.