You might have to replace your friends. I do social dance, this is an effective "replacement" for alcohol but certainly once you get good typically some subset

You might have to replace your friends. I do social dance, this is an effective "replacement" for alcohol but certainly once you get good typically some subset of places that offer a venue to social dancing dohave alochol and it's considered impolite to not meet soft minimum requirements but the consumption dynamic there is not quite the same.