This was one of the revelations for me from the “seven habits” book. Adversarial relationships can be a great motivator, but it remains an external one. Depend

This was one of the revelations for me from the “seven habits” book. Adversarial relationships can be a great motivator, but it remains an external one. Depending on someone else to be the vehicle of your success is risky - they might not cooperate or do something different, or just disappear from your life, and now you’re empty. It can work, but I wouldn’t advise depending on it. Especially since there can be much better ways.