I think technology may serve as a liability here. There are stories around the net of people forgetting to reset the "deadman switch" on their solution, and th

I think technology may serve as a liability here. There are stories around the net of people forgetting to reset the "deadman switch" on their solution, and their contacts are supplied with an errant death notice. Have you considered low/no tech solutions? Along with a living will (should you become incapacitated,) access to account passwords may assist your family/friends in taking care of your estate when you are unable. It could be as simple as providing a password list in a sealed envelope to someone you trust to serve your best interests, should their assistance be required A lawyer may also be willing to provide this service to you