Keep an inner scorecard and try to live by that. Once in a while you'll slip, but just dust it off and get back to focusing on your journey. The more you focus

Keep an inner scorecard and try to live by that. Once in a while you'll slip, but just dust it off and get back to focusing on your journey. The more you focus outside you, the less effective and good you'll be on your path. This is adult life, except now it's about riches and fame and success -- like in school, some are going to be ahead of you and some behind. Sometimes this will be out of pure dumb luck and being in the right place + time (as many of our friends in tech are even if they hesitate to admit that) and other times because they _are_ better than you at things and have worked at it hard and earned it. We must all accept it at some point for what it is. I'll say it again - define your inner scorecard first.