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I am no expert by any means, but just skimming to your problem description I see two "pain points": 1. Your job - no fulfillment - just money. 2. Your spouse
by stayux 5y ago
I am no expert by any means, but just skimming to your problem description I see two "pain points":
1. Your job - no fulfillment - just money.
2. Your spouse - no trust - lack of compassion.
For the looks of it you are stuck in two places of frustration. Find adequate therapy, speak with people who you trust and have respect for. If after this solution is not present - exclude the two points of frustration from your life and restart, rebuild and enjoy life. Wish you luck.
- ranguna 5y ago> 2. Your spouse - no trust - lack of compassion. You can't know that without more context. Things aren't that simple in a tight relationship environment, and it's not some random person on the interwebs that can make out such a conclusion with a mere block of text from the OP.
- stayux 5y agoI agree. That's why, I suggested a therapist as a first step. Without more context every advice is wrong. But as a general rule of thumb, identifying, reducing or eliminating the pain points works. I know this from my limited experience with two burnouts so far.