This rings true. > But if you lose your own mental health you’re pretty much done. Happened to me. I started the relationship with zeal and willingness to hel

This rings true. > But if you lose your own mental health you’re pretty much done. Happened to me. I started the relationship with zeal and willingness to help. I wished to make a difference, yet it can be incredibly taxing one one's emotions. You can very much be affected yourself.