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First, you don't know if they were married, of what their vows were. Second, you have no idea what they've gone through, no understanding of their pain. If you
by roberto 5y ago
First, you don't know if they were married, of what their vows were.
Second, you have no idea what they've gone through, no understanding of their pain. If you have nothing constructive to say, no empathy, just shut up.
- rsyring 5y ago> First, you don't know if they were married, of what their vows were. The comment said "spouse" so married. So we are in agreement that what's in the vows actually matter? > just shut up. Yah...how about not doing that here: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
- skellera 5y agoI don’t think everyone sees marriage the same way. Vows are not morally or legally binding. It’s good if people want to take them seriously but people leave each other for lesser things than decades long depression.
- throwawayboise 5y agoVows are absolutely morally binding. That's why they are taken. But they are taken together, mutually.
- luckyscs 5y agoNot everyone does English, christian vows. Most people in the world don't.