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As a parent with a 3 and 4 year old who was only a functional adult if I worked out intensely at least 4 days per week, and now is struggling desperately to get
by Enginerrrd 5y ago
As a parent with a 3 and 4 year old who was only a functional adult if I worked out intensely at least 4 days per week, and now is struggling desperately to get that back, its not by choice. Children are just really demanding. I think a big part of the problem is that humans were not meant to raise children in isolated family units. You were meant to have a small village where they could go bother different adults and older children and learn from everyone to find a little niche for them, and everyone just kind of kept an eye on the kids so that the parents could do normal survival things like cook, work, and make.
- watwut 5y agoThey used to die in accidents a lot more then now. They used to be independent significantly sooner too. Like, 5 years olds herding gooses next to river with no adult independent.
- radicalbyte 5y agoThis. I loved lifting and felt fantastic before our 3rd was born (just before Corona), the last time has felt like being in jail. Luckily once the youngest kid starts school is gets 100x easier. Only two more years to go :)
- freedom2099 5y agoOr maybe 3 kids are just too many to handle! I’m my first is coming an can already tell you is going to be the last!