My man needs to discover his tribe. If you can't be "surrounded by ideas" and "get a second rush of energy from mind-altering [conversation], and have to decide

My man needs to discover his tribe. If you can't be "surrounded by ideas" and "get a second rush of energy from mind-altering [conversation], and have to decide between following a rabbit hole until 3 am or going to sleep so I can be well-rested the next day" at a party when that's what floats your boat, you need to be going to different parties. Source: Most of the parties I go to are full of my own weird passionate curious kind of people and that 3am rabbit hole is where most of those end up. Good at going to bed early, we are not.