yeah I know. I only have my own experiences to draw from, though. besides, it doesn't matter what is typical and what is atypical in situations like mine. at

yeah I know. I only have my own experiences to draw from, though. besides, it doesn't matter what is typical and what is atypical in situations like mine. at the time this damage was done to me, there was no "typical" or "atypical" - there was only what was happening. and what happened shaped me.