I’m neither and it’s true for me, my partner, and our jobs. If I don’t want to work, I take PTO and the meetings happen another day. If I want to go for an al

I’m neither and it’s true for me, my partner, and our jobs. If I don’t want to work, I take PTO and the meetings happen another day. If I want to go for an all-day run or bike ride, I let my partner know my plan and when I’ll be home and whether I’ll pick up dinner. Once I came home to find she left a note on the fridge saying she was doing a spontaneous century on her bike and could I get her a soda. Does this stuff happen all the time? No. That’s why it can happen.