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I have a job that pays the bills and where I haven’t worked overtime in many years. I start small hobby projects because it’s fun, and I rarely finish them. Bec
by alkonaut 5y ago
I have a job that pays the bills and where I haven’t worked overtime in many years. I start small hobby projects because it’s fun, and I rarely finish them. Because starting a project is fun and finishing usually isn’t. And I do it - remember - because it’s fun.
If I’m going to start pressuring myself to finish hobby projects then it’s not fun any more. That’s work. Not a hobby.
Hobbies might be extra curricular activities to boost your resume for a tiny period before your first job. But once you are hired a) your hobby projects take a much smaller place on your list of achievements and b) your need your hobbies to disconnect from work.
Best advice for avoiding burnout is to switch jobs quickly if you are stressed over work. If you lose sleep over work it’s not worth it. If there is crunch time or expectations that you regularly work over 40 hours per week, get out. Find a job that doesn’t do that. It might not be in some sexy industry it could be in concrete manufacturing or an airline - but that’s the price you’ll have to pay.
Also, don’t be afraid to just take a hobby that doesn’t have a goal other than relaxing and disconnecting. Especially once you land a software job you’ll find that you’ll really want a hobby that isn’t anywhere near software.
- cheschire 5y agoThe real hard part is when the hobby starts becoming successful, then you have a hard choice to make.
- david-gpu 5y agoHow do you define success? For me a successful hobby is one that is fun to do and leaves me energized. It's only a hobby if I'm doing it because it's fun.
- Gary_TheSnail_ 5y agoThank you for the wise words. I like this reply a lot. It was a nice reminder :)
- andretti1977 5y agoI'm a software engineer and my best hobby is bushcraft. I've tried sometimes to add a bit of tech to my adventures but soon i realized it was better to let this passion be completely free from technological stuffs ;)