> I know the doctors can't say "let's not save this one. we could keep them alive, but it's better for everyone to not do that". They absolutely can, if they k

> I know the doctors can't say "let's not save this one. we could keep them alive, but it's better for everyone to not do that". They absolutely can, if they know that that's what you would want and someone from your family isn't actively trying to stop them. That's why it's important for people to have DNRs and/or make their wishes known to multiple family members.