What she would likely call self-preservation, I find to be quite selfish. She uprooted her children, she tore down her marriage, because she wanted to be more f

What she would likely call self-preservation, I find to be quite selfish. She uprooted her children, she tore down her marriage, because she wanted to be more free? Did she ever consider discussing with her husband what changes could be made to their arrangement? Past that, I interpreted the author as clearly uncomfortable with her choice, no matter how badly she wanted to give the aura of confidence. She weakly tried to assign her decision to peering over the patriarchy, but that just felt flat and muted. I feel bad for the kids.