I'm in my 40s and am exactly the same. All my energy goes into work and family and at the end of the day, there is nothing left for cultivating friendships. I

I'm in my 40s and am exactly the same. All my energy goes into work and family and at the end of the day, there is nothing left for cultivating friendships. I tell myself that when my daughter grows up and I have more time I cultivate friendships again (though I may have forgotten how to).