I believe the opposite of what the author is saying: it's an important part of the way our society functions to shame people who make personal choices at the ex

I believe the opposite of what the author is saying: it's an important part of the way our society functions to shame people who make personal choices at the expense of everyone else. We're hard-wired to care about social status, and it's one of the mechanisms that pushes us to cooperate. Also, while I agree that someone on a work visa is effectively an indentured servant and I can't judge them for working at a company that does bad things, peoples' gender identification or the color of their skin does not absolve them of social responsibility. That part is just flamebaiting or self-indulgent (or both).