I consider a detached home with a private, wooded yard (which is still near enough to urban amenities and utilities to not be a "country estate") to be my ideal

I consider a detached home with a private, wooded yard (which is still near enough to urban amenities and utilities to not be a "country estate") to be my ideal home, and don't see how this kind of home and lifestyle can fit into neo-urbanist planning schemes without a lot of friction.