I'm in the SFBA, but grew up in central KY and eastern TN. While I'm very interested in moving out, my wife isn't ready yet. Personally I find California to be

I'm in the SFBA, but grew up in central KY and eastern TN. While I'm very interested in moving out, my wife isn't ready yet. Personally I find California to be oppressively over-regulated (zoning and planning are horrible, but the limits on what I can do and buy are also heavy-handed), unreasonably expensive (primarily housing, taxes, fees, and energy), and the people too judgmental of others and their differences (trendy-issue virtue-signaling is a competitive sport). It isn't a healthy or cost-effective place to raise kids. The only things going for the area used to be nice weather and tech jobs. But now that summer and early fall are filled with smoke and the jobs can be worked from anywhere, why stay? My wife agreed to move out as soon as we had a child, so I'm pretty excited about having the opportunity for an escape.