I think I'm like that, and it feels very related to the "robustness principle" in programming (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robustness_principle https://en.wik

I think I'm like that, and it feels very related to the "robustness principle" in programming (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robustness_principle https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robustness_principle). "Be conservative in what you send, be liberal in what you accept." And to the idea that I can change what's in my power - my actions. I have to accept the things I can't change, like the actions of strangers. And I'm not a judge, I don't like judging people. Who knows, they may have a good reason. Walk a mile in their shoes, and so on. If there are enough people who think like me, the rules will still mostly hold. And if not, perhaps it wasn't a good rule.