> It seems that child development ought to be paced more naturally. Here's the fun part: no matter what you do, she's going to grow and develop on her own sche

> It seems that child development ought to be paced more naturally. Here's the fun part: no matter what you do, she's going to grow and develop on her own schedule. I've raised 5 kids, and every one of them did things differently - and in unexpected ways. Just be patient, and remember the best thing you can do for your child is to make life fun, engaging and interesting. If you want to help her develop to her maximum potential, focus on reducing stress (not eliminating it, but reducing it). She's going to get enough stress in life without parents fretting over her development. stress is proven to slow development, and contribute to mental illness. By the way, measure (and CELEBRATE) moments instead of milestones. Moments turn into memories and are a gift she'll cherish the rest of her life.