No it's not: she'll exceed your expectation in some part (my 3yo can lie and seduce with perfect awareness, speaks okay in 3 languages with a very impressive En

No it's not: she'll exceed your expectation in some part (my 3yo can lie and seduce with perfect awareness, speaks okay in 3 languages with a very impressive English accent despite both non english parents) and disappoint in other (mine still refuses to brush her teeth on her own, she was late in pooping by herself cleanly according to milestone books). Just let it go, focus on soft skills like being nice and patient, eat not too much crap and accept some authority and you'll be fine.