Your daughter will be fine even if you ignore all these milestones, there is so much variability between kids that it causes lots of anxiety in parents. You ar

Your daughter will be fine even if you ignore all these milestones, there is so much variability between kids that it causes lots of anxiety in parents. You are most certainly good enough parents to give her a bright future. You seem to care! Continue to put in time and focus on the small things in your shared life. Read stories together, eat together, play etc. If you want to really cure yourself of this, just get a few more kids ;-) First kid is always the biggest challenge and most associated stress around if they develop “right”.