I've had horrible moments in my marriage.. but we both have ADHD and I think we, at least I almost always forget the things that troubled me... probably wouldn'

I've had horrible moments in my marriage.. but we both have ADHD and I think we, at least I almost always forget the things that troubled me... probably wouldn't have lasted 16 years... easier to forgive when you're distracted by something new and forgot why you're even angry...