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> Mentally tell yourself what to do and have it stick (EDIT) This fragment reminds me of the "get over yourself" advice given to depressed people. Something so
by hericium 5y ago
> Mentally tell yourself what to do and have it stick
(EDIT) This fragment reminds me of the "get over yourself" advice given to depressed people. Something sounding easy but being absolutely out of your control.
There are different types of ADHD. If you have a constant compulsive need for being elsewhere and doing something else, there is no mental exercise that would make you stick to things and stop finding yourself doing something else than supposed.
When required to do activity A, you'll find yourself exercising activity B or activity C only a short time, and every time, after forcing yourself back to A. When you decide to do B, since you can't focus on A, you'll quickly find yourself back at A because you're supposed to be doing B. Oh, and now it's C. And back to A. What fun. ABCAABCCABCCAABC. Forced, barely controlled multi-tasking.
- NobodyNada 5y ago> While the rest of your comment sounds reasonable, this fragment somewhat reminds me of the "get over yourself" advice given to depressed people [...] there is no mental exercise that would make you stick to things Forgive me if I misread, but I believe you and the parent comment are in agreement here. “Mentally tell yourself what to do and have it stick” is not given as a point of advice, but as an example of something people with ADHD struggle with.
- hericium 5y agoThank you! I edited my comment to not disturb the discussion but you've got a real-life example of reacting too quickly. In a discussion about, among others, reacting too fast.