> "I'm concerned my cousin thinks this behaviour is ok, think it's time to dial back the contact with them" maybe "I'm concerned my cousin thinks this behavio

> "I'm concerned my cousin thinks this behaviour is ok, think it's time to dial back the contact with them" maybe "I'm concerned my cousin thinks this behaviour is ok, think it's time to consider what the relationship is worth to me, and if its important, attempt to influence better behaviors otherwise dial back contact with them" instead