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First you'd need consent to actually ask the question, and prior to that, you'd need consent to speak with the person (you'd have to get that in writing).
by soperj 5y ago
First you'd need consent to actually ask the question, and prior to that, you'd need consent to speak with the person (you'd have to get that in writing).
- kelseyfrog 5y agoNot sure where you're getting that from. I would like to assume positive intent and the best interpretation of your position, but it's really difficult to not read this as "If we have to get consent for touching someone, then we have to get consent for all interactions. Therefore touch-consent is non-viable." Please help me understand how you aren't saying that.
- soperj 5y agoAs someone who's been on the receiving end of unwanted touches, just keeping your hands to yourself and not asking at all would be perfectly fine.
- unethical_ban 5y agoI feel like on dates, light touching should be an expected possibility. Trying to hold a hand, put an arm around one another, etc. If it isn't wanted, simply decline it. The idea that no physical touching can be initiated in any manner before asking on a date is a bad thing.