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> rule #1 on tinder is “be physically attractive” For guys it used to be right, now rule #1 is more "be super attractive" or "be attractive and don't have stan

by polote 5y ago

> rule #1 on tinder is “be physically attractive” For guys it used to be right, now rule #1 is more "be super attractive" or "be attractive and don't have standard" For girls rule #1 is "be a girl"

sebastianconcpt 5y ago
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- sebastianconcpt 5y ago
  It's funny how raw red pill truths get downvoted here. Some seem to prefer to send technical brutal honesty about the current state of sexual market under the rug.
  - ProjectArcturis 5y ago
    It could be the app, or it could be that women can easily smell the scent of desperation, entitlement, and resentment wafting off of you.
    - sebastianconcpt 5y ago
      I don't know where did you take that from but Tinder's data show is actually women.
  - wayoutthere 5y ago
    Maybe thinking about sexuality as a market is your first problem. If you’re not physically attractive, just don’t use Tinder; it’s not the only way to find someone to date. Shouldn’t be a surprise that someone who blames “women” as a whole for his problems would have a hard time meeting women. And as a corollary, I’ve dated super hot guys before and frankly a lot of them have a hard time with relationships because it was so easy for them to hook up when they were younger they don’t know how to put the effort in to make someone feel desired.
    - sebastianconcpt 5y ago
      I'm not asking anyone about my case not seeking advice as I do great already in both online and offline. You seem in a hurry to assume other people's position and problems and providing unrequested advice that only validate your assumptions. Have you ever observed that in yourself? Regarding to that corollary, you're assuming top guys even want to invest in relationships in the first place. Not the case of many I know. The strategy is more like: enjoy the party until one of the girls is so mindblowing feminine and submissive and good person that is worth giving a chance to some investing.
  - filmgirlcw 5y ago
    Or maybe people just don’t want to fuck you. And maybe you aren’t entitled to anyone fucking you.
    - sebastianconcpt 5y ago
      I find your interest in my sexual life as inappropriate as distracting while I'm learning this new shibari binding as my main sub girl is asking me to use it on her this weekend. Oh god, how she loves when I use rope on her. What were you saying?
- cultofmetatron 5y ago
  This is only really true in north america (especially if you're of Indian descent). Women have much more realistic expectations once you get out of that cesspit
  - sebastianconcpt 5y ago
    Enjoy while it lasts because social media will spread their ambitions. In any case, woman desire for fit men is culturally universal so all should hit the gym and diet for its own good. Hard. Good luck making your game to the next level!
    - cultofmetatron 5y ago
      I'm currently in a relationship so It doesn't affect me anynore. as far as hitting the gym, I agree. its one of our favorite activities together.
jonnybgood 5y ago
What does "super attractive" look like? > For girls rule #1 is "be a girl" Not at all. Women can have just as much of a hard time as men, especially for certain ethnicities.
- polote 5y ago
  > What does "super attractive" look like? Basically be a model > Women can have just as much of a hard time as men, especially for certain ethnicities. Can't find the study, but black women are actually having a tougher time than all others women to get matches on dating apps. But this is still nothing compared to the attention guys get
  - vhanda 5y ago
    It was from OkCupid, though it has since been deleted. [1] https://web.archive.org/web/20170217052152/https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060#.6301aosoq https://web.archive.org/web/20170217052152/https://theblog.o... [2] https://www.npr.org/2018/01/09/575352051/least-desirable-how-racial-discrimination-plays-out-in-online-dating https://www.npr.org/2018/01/09/575352051/least-desirable-how...
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cultofmetatron 5y ago
too true, I once had a conversation with a friend of mine. She was saying to just use tinder. As we were about to get in the car, I told her: I'll do nothing but swipe till we get there. if I get a match, I'll pay for lunch when we arrive, otherwise you pay. She said yes. easiest free meal I ever got
whitepaint 5y ago
Sorry, but you really gotta lose this attitude man.

by polote 5y ago

sebastianconcpt 5y ago

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sebastianconcpt 5y ago
It's funny how raw red pill truths get downvoted here. Some seem to prefer to send technical brutal honesty about the current state of sexual market under the rug.
- ProjectArcturis 5y ago
  It could be the app, or it could be that women can easily smell the scent of desperation, entitlement, and resentment wafting off of you.
  - sebastianconcpt 5y ago
    I don't know where did you take that from but Tinder's data show is actually women.
- wayoutthere 5y ago
  Maybe thinking about sexuality as a market is your first problem. If you’re not physically attractive, just don’t use Tinder; it’s not the only way to find someone to date. Shouldn’t be a surprise that someone who blames “women” as a whole for his problems would have a hard time meeting women. And as a corollary, I’ve dated super hot guys before and frankly a lot of them have a hard time with relationships because it was so easy for them to hook up when they were younger they don’t know how to put the effort in to make someone feel desired.
  - sebastianconcpt 5y ago
    I'm not asking anyone about my case not seeking advice as I do great already in both online and offline. You seem in a hurry to assume other people's position and problems and providing unrequested advice that only validate your assumptions. Have you ever observed that in yourself? Regarding to that corollary, you're assuming top guys even want to invest in relationships in the first place. Not the case of many I know. The strategy is more like: enjoy the party until one of the girls is so mindblowing feminine and submissive and good person that is worth giving a chance to some investing.
- filmgirlcw 5y ago
  Or maybe people just don’t want to fuck you. And maybe you aren’t entitled to anyone fucking you.
  - sebastianconcpt 5y ago
    I find your interest in my sexual life as inappropriate as distracting while I'm learning this new shibari binding as my main sub girl is asking me to use it on her this weekend. Oh god, how she loves when I use rope on her. What were you saying?
cultofmetatron 5y ago
This is only really true in north america (especially if you're of Indian descent). Women have much more realistic expectations once you get out of that cesspit
- sebastianconcpt 5y ago
  Enjoy while it lasts because social media will spread their ambitions. In any case, woman desire for fit men is culturally universal so all should hit the gym and diet for its own good. Hard. Good luck making your game to the next level!
  - cultofmetatron 5y ago
    I'm currently in a relationship so It doesn't affect me anynore. as far as hitting the gym, I agree. its one of our favorite activities together.

jonnybgood 5y ago

What does "super attractive" look like? > For girls rule #1 is "be a girl" Not at all. Women can have just as much of a hard time as men, especially for certain ethnicities.

polote 5y ago
> What does "super attractive" look like? Basically be a model > Women can have just as much of a hard time as men, especially for certain ethnicities. Can't find the study, but black women are actually having a tougher time than all others women to get matches on dating apps. But this is still nothing compared to the attention guys get
- vhanda 5y ago
  It was from OkCupid, though it has since been deleted. [1] https://web.archive.org/web/20170217052152/https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060#.6301aosoq https://web.archive.org/web/20170217052152/https://theblog.o... [2] https://www.npr.org/2018/01/09/575352051/least-desirable-how-racial-discrimination-plays-out-in-online-dating https://www.npr.org/2018/01/09/575352051/least-desirable-how...

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cultofmetatron 5y ago

too true, I once had a conversation with a friend of mine. She was saying to just use tinder. As we were about to get in the car, I told her: I'll do nothing but swipe till we get there. if I get a match, I'll pay for lunch when we arrive, otherwise you pay. She said yes. easiest free meal I ever got

whitepaint 5y ago

Sorry, but you really gotta lose this attitude man.