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FWIW I seldom got any likes on Tinder in USA. I would consider myself in the top 10% of my own country in height and looks but not the same in USA. I realized t
by newyankee 5y ago
FWIW I seldom got any likes on Tinder in USA. I would consider myself in the top 10% of my own country in height and looks but not the same in USA. I realized that US women do not consider me attractive at least based on limited data that a Tinder card shows.
- Quarrelsome 5y agoFWIW if you're not paying then you're not being shown to anyone outside of maybe the first 24 hours.
- mrep 5y agoI cannot say for tinder, but I just opened bumble for the first time in weeks and apparently I have 50+ likes.
- Quarrelsome 5y agoTindr is known to be particularly bad. idk about Bumble.
- sebastianconcpt 5y agoBecause Tinder is a woman's menu of fuck buddies and for that they aim at the top fraction of 1%. It's unreal but is where their fantasy is taking them.
- standardUser 5y agoTweak your profile, try other apps, and accept that the funnel is going to be massive.
- newyankee 5y agoI did something different. Moved back to my country, had an 'arranged' marriage and am content now. Work remotely and happy with it too. Funnier issue is that a lot of women of my race in USA did not want to date a first generation immigrant.I do not want to generalize and do social commentary but I hope we hear more comments from many sides of the story. Matchmaking is always going to be Darwinian in the extreme sense but the sense of low confidence it created in me when in USA was quite high.