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Diminishing expectations and diminishing commitments are a major issue in our lives, not the minor problem like it seems. I suspect that we all have that probl
by cc101 5y ago
Diminishing expectations and diminishing commitments are a major issue in our lives, not the minor problem like it seems. I suspect that we all have that problem.
Every day I read my mission statement. Among other things it reminds me that "I repeatedly reject diminishing expectations and diminishing commitments, and that I will frequently refresh my positive expectations and commitments."
Then I read a list of my current projects noting progress, what my next step is, and why this is important. I don't always do this well, but this is what I strive to do.
I also think that you have unrealistic expectations. You seem to be trying too much. I know I have that problem. It hurts like ** to give up on things I would like to do, but I can't do them all.
- trms 5y agoI agree, this is a major issue. The inability to stick with things is shaping my entire life and career. Having a personal mission statement sounds interesting, and I'm glad to see it's been working out for you. > It hurts like * to give up on things I would like to do, but I can't do them all. Exactly. It's a sort of FOMO, there's definitely an element of that too.