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Our (your) military recruits young adults, a term we've decided on, but many poorer militaries recruit as young as 10 years old. Having rules restricting milita

Our (your) military recruits young adults, a term we've decided on, but many poorer militaries recruit as young as 10 years old. Having rules restricting military recruitment is a luxury of our wealth. As for "lie-cheat-steal machines", I've personally observed it across thousands of children. It mainly happens at 11-13 years of age, middle school in the USA. When I worked for Southland Corporation (7-11), we tried everything to keep a store adjacent to a middle school operating. Finally sold it. Kids go through earlier phases of this when they first discover lying. Each kid differently, of course. "On the contrary, kids are relatively complex emotionally and are capable of empathy from a young age." That's not "On the contrary". Kids are, indeed. Emotionally complex and empathetic doesn't preclude naive innocence at all.

Mezzie 5y ago
That's a biased sample. Children are more likely to lie/cheat/steal when they're from shitty circumstances; if you grow up knowing that adults will not help you when you need help (for instance, asking for food doesn't work, or that telling the truth will result in punishment), then once they're old enough to take care of their own needs/protect themselves, they do. They just have shit judgement because they're kids. Basically, it's what happens if you teach kids that the system/adults/authority only exist to punish and hurt them. (I'd also bet those kids have a decent amount of empathy for EACH OTHER. Just not you.) Any school is going to have a population of those kids, and those kids are indeed a problem for nearby businesses, but that 10-20% can't be generalized to biological developmental stages.
chernevik 5y ago
Any "military" recruiting that young will get chewed up by a serious state. Of course it happens, but in the context of failed states and serious social chaos.
slingnow 5y ago
I find it incredibly dubious that you've personally witnessed thousands of children transform into "lie-cheat-steal" machines firsthand. An anecdote with no other context about a 7-11 that had to close because it was next to a middle-school is pretty weak evidence.
- CapitalistCartr 5y ago
  That's because it's not offered as evidence. As you said, it's an anecdote. I've observed this pattern so often because schoolkids offer masses of kids. Every store had this same problem. I personally found it fascinating, but then, it wasn't my money.
  - Wiseacre 5y ago
    Are adults who slack off on the clock lie-cheat-steal machines? It seems like adults are far worse and do it far more frequently than teens then.
  - vlovich123 5y ago
    I observed it from the other end. There was a group of kids who got together and stole from the neighborhood 7-11 and then everyone got punished with regulations like “no more than 2 kids at a time in the store” because the stores just thought in terms of “it’s always the kids stealing” and not “I’m not prepared to handle an influx of customers some of whom suffer bad impulse control”. Such a policy was problematic for us because the 7-11 was a 15-20 minute walk which meant that trip was the bulk of the lunch hour.
watwut 5y ago
> As for "lie-cheat-steal machines", I've personally observed it across thousands of children. It mainly happens at 11-13 years of age, middle school in the USA. Nonesense. First, you did not personally observed thousands of 11-13 years old. Second, 11-13 years are pretty empathetic and already have a lot of values in them. They do lie, just like most adults do, but they don't steal and don't cheat all that much. They are already building pretty nuanced value system.
- louis___ 5y ago
  Why are you so agressive to the comment you're responding to ? Why do you refuse it the benefit of the doubt ?
  - watwut 5y ago
    I am no more aggressive then comment I responded to. > Why do you refuse it the benefit of the doubt ? Benefit of the doubt that parent met thousands of 11-13 years old? And all of them were stealing cheating machines?

Mezzie 5y ago

That's a biased sample. Children are more likely to lie/cheat/steal when they're from shitty circumstances; if you grow up knowing that adults will not help you when you need help (for instance, asking for food doesn't work, or that telling the truth will result in punishment), then once they're old enough to take care of their own needs/protect themselves, they do. They just have shit judgement because they're kids. Basically, it's what happens if you teach kids that the system/adults/authority only exist to punish and hurt them. (I'd also bet those kids have a decent amount of empathy for EACH OTHER. Just not you.) Any school is going to have a population of those kids, and those kids are indeed a problem for nearby businesses, but that 10-20% can't be generalized to biological developmental stages.

chernevik 5y ago

Any "military" recruiting that young will get chewed up by a serious state. Of course it happens, but in the context of failed states and serious social chaos.

slingnow 5y ago

I find it incredibly dubious that you've personally witnessed thousands of children transform into "lie-cheat-steal" machines firsthand. An anecdote with no other context about a 7-11 that had to close because it was next to a middle-school is pretty weak evidence.

CapitalistCartr 5y ago
That's because it's not offered as evidence. As you said, it's an anecdote. I've observed this pattern so often because schoolkids offer masses of kids. Every store had this same problem. I personally found it fascinating, but then, it wasn't my money.
- Wiseacre 5y ago
  Are adults who slack off on the clock lie-cheat-steal machines? It seems like adults are far worse and do it far more frequently than teens then.
- vlovich123 5y ago
  I observed it from the other end. There was a group of kids who got together and stole from the neighborhood 7-11 and then everyone got punished with regulations like “no more than 2 kids at a time in the store” because the stores just thought in terms of “it’s always the kids stealing” and not “I’m not prepared to handle an influx of customers some of whom suffer bad impulse control”. Such a policy was problematic for us because the 7-11 was a 15-20 minute walk which meant that trip was the bulk of the lunch hour.

watwut 5y ago

> As for "lie-cheat-steal machines", I've personally observed it across thousands of children. It mainly happens at 11-13 years of age, middle school in the USA. Nonesense. First, you did not personally observed thousands of 11-13 years old. Second, 11-13 years are pretty empathetic and already have a lot of values in them. They do lie, just like most adults do, but they don't steal and don't cheat all that much. They are already building pretty nuanced value system.

louis___ 5y ago
Why are you so agressive to the comment you're responding to ? Why do you refuse it the benefit of the doubt ?
- watwut 5y ago
  I am no more aggressive then comment I responded to. > Why do you refuse it the benefit of the doubt ? Benefit of the doubt that parent met thousands of 11-13 years old? And all of them were stealing cheating machines?