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Can confirm. My son was definitely born with most of his behavioural patterns already formed. It appears to me that we as parents can only guide what is already

Can confirm. My son was definitely born with most of his behavioural patterns already formed. It appears to me that we as parents can only guide what is already there, and not completely reshape our children into whatever suits us. I expect parents expectations of how much they can shape their children has caused more broken adults than anything else.

b112 5y ago
Yes, we try to help kids fit into society a bit. The extrovert we teach control and restraint, the introvert to be ongoing and more expressive.
- toshk 5y ago
  Yes exactly. Some mainly need borders, others need to show how to go beyond.