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I've been to a few Psychologists, and two Psychiatrists. I asked the first one about his fee. I went in not knowing. I had this horrid anxiety that just woul
by hellbannedguy 5y ago
I've been to a few Psychologists, and two Psychiatrists.
I asked the first one about his fee. I went in not knowing. I had this horrid anxiety that just wouldn't go away. He says, "pay me what you think I'm worth."
I was in such angony, but did't want to piss this guy off. He had a good reputation. He offered no medication, and had this rediculious theory my anxiety was post traumatic syndrome from the '88 earthquake.
Anyway ge told me his fee was $450.00. I paid it and left.
I saw a Phd. Psychologist I found in the yellow pages. I talked and talked. I cried, and cried. Nothing was stopping the daily anxiety.
I ended up finding a Psychiatrist who didn't rape me on price. He put me on two very addictive drugs, and I've been on them decades. The mandatory appointments are tedious. I get absolutely nothing out of them. I've been on the same dose, so I think i'm just addicted, and any perceived pharmaceutical help
is placebo.
Anyway--unless you hear voices (really bad voices that are bothering you greatly I added that tidbit about voices because they found schizophrenics do better long term without meds), or ready to commit suicide; I would stay away from the entire profession.
Oh yea, in your twenties and thirties, they are rough decades. If you don't bust a gasket consider yourself lucky.
If I had a do over, I don't think I would have ever seeked help. It's kinda a joke. It's definitely an art.
- deft 5y agoSame here, I would have never paid if insurance didn't cover it. I also realized a lot of my problems were due to being young and I think I would have gotten over it all anyway.
- cobertos 5y agoDamn, I'm really sorry to hear you went through all that. The amount of anxiety I've had to _accept_ treatment into my life is because of stories like this. It's been a different though helpful journey for me, but also a lot of questioning, self tracking (to have some reassurance of a change in state over long periods of time), and a little experimentation.
- throwaway1280 5y agoThat sounds incredibly rough. But as a simple counterpoint to this, I'm getting a lot out of therapy, as are most of my friends who are in therapy. It's not doing what I thought it would - it hasn't fixed my depression overnight, or cured my irritability - but it's providing a different framework to think about the world and relate to people, and I like who I am an awful lot more than I like the person I was. It's expensive for me, at 60 bucks a session on a not-particularly-high wage, and I regularly revisit the idea of stopping, but I think I'm still getting something useful and insightful out of most appointments, so I'm keeping on going.