> Why shame them in "get a life" if all they want to do is to socialize a bit at work where they spend so much time. The people who don't want to socialize at

> Why shame them in "get a life" if all they want to do is to socialize a bit at work where they spend so much time. The people who don't want to socialize at work will find themselves being socialized with. I understand the feeling somewhat, and I imagine a lot of others might, as well. Everyone's had situations where they've felt compelled to feign friendliness with others who they had no interest speaking with.