I can only offer "becoming Zen". People constantly praise me for being Zen about things that upset everyone else; it apparently grants me much "leadership poi

I can only offer "becoming Zen". People constantly praise me for being Zen about things that upset everyone else; it apparently grants me much "leadership points" among my peers and direct reports. It's mostly because at some level I just don't care enough to INVEST the energy required to get upset let alone meltdown. I pick carefully what I CHOOSE to invest emotional in and it's a very short list. Related to this: what are you willing to "walk away from", and if you aren't, why not? I have also experienced most of the "stress/crisis events" a man can, and survived them well enough or often enough to not be phased by them anymore. https://paindoctor.com/top-10-stressful-life-events-holmes-rahe-stress-scale/ https://paindoctor.com/top-10-stressful-life-events-holmes-r...