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Ask HN: How are your interviewers being rude to you?

I've had people just be not nice to the point of rudeness, people driving while interviewing, people walking on treadmills out of breath, etc.

syngrog66 5y ago
wouldnt call these rude necessarily, but definitely among the anti-patterns I've experienced: - being coy about pay. "lets hop on the phone!" "it will be competitive!" "well we're just about to get a big funding round and when we do..." "well first we'll need you to jump thru hoops A,B,C... and maybe after that we might tell you..." - in general, wanting to tell me things in a call vs a quick concise async email - in a call, they repeat things already conveyed on their website and in the job description, which I will already have read - no job description/profile (though this can be overlooked sometimes if its truly a broad profile, effectively "smart people who ship, and are nice, and sane") -"requiring" me to do coding tests or challenge projects despite me having mounds of public evidence that I'm a real programmer, and not my 1st rodeo - compounding the above by having the gall to assume I'll gladly spend my valuable free time doing that for them, for 0 pay - saying I can work remotely but NOT from my state (I'd be free to move to a different state and then be allowed to work from my home. what the---?) - my pay will not be private, in the interests of "transparency" -- ok, lets go ahead and make sure every employee and shareholders total financial picture is public, in that same spirit, goose and the gander, etc. no thanks - putting their end on speakerphone - notorious for cutting out speech sounds and worsening audio quality. forcing any part to have to say "what?" or ask to repeat is irritating and makes folks sound a little dumber than otherwise -- just say no, folks. we live in an age of crystal quality telephony audio if we simply choose to use it could add dozens more. again, not sure I'd call any single one "rude", but definitely lots of folks out there who don't seem to think or care about their impact on others. curse of more life experience and care is you increasingly encounter bigger gaps between how things "should be" vs how they are?
kstenerud 5y ago
It shows their professionalism, and how much they value you and your time. Point out their bad behavior and end the interview. They failed. Consider it a good thing because you might have actually accepted a job there, and then you'd have wasted a ton of time and effort for nothing.
sillysaurusx 5y ago
They keep giving me questions from TopCoder. Stop doing TopCoder-based interviewing. You're ruining your company this way. I'm offended on principle.
- kerneloftruth 5y ago
  I've walked out on a couple of interviews when they tried whiteboard coding. I politely laughed and said I really don't do performance art. I thanked them for their time and left.
  - drenvuk 5y ago
    What? What would you rather have? A takehome? People find a reason to complain about those as well because the ones administering them become really god damned nitpicky. What I try to give is a three parter simple string parsing manipulation question where you build on each successive part as well as providing both valid and invalid inputs for them to use as test cases. It shows organizational skills and the ability to break down problems into reusable parts as well as the super basics of string parsing. I think being able to do that much under time pressure shows the learned qualities of a programmer since most will go with what's been ingrained into them by way of habit. I can understand brain teasers being a poor measure of ability but I'm super on board for online whiteboarding when done properly. 45 minutes, no muss, no fuss. No 6 hours on a weekend to make something. No impenetrable question that requires tricks you don't need for day to day work that you can later look up.
    - shados 5y ago
      There's more and more companies that don't give you coding exercises at all. They'll have code reviews, or a debugging exercise, system design, all the other stuff, but will skip the algo question. I hate algo/whiteboarding myself, especially complex ones, but I think there's some value in doing some minimal in person fizz-buzzing, especially if you work for a very popular company. The amount of people who can talk through interviews all day long but can't code is too high not to at least attempt to filter them out. What I do is give a very simple question, and make it clear that its not a "gotcha" question and that I just want to talk through with them how they'd solve it, to at least filter out the "deer in headlights" candidates. No one walked out of that to this day.
deadalus 5y ago
They(rude interviewers) think that you are taking something from them, that you are after something they have. They believe that we(people looking for a job) are parasites, so they want to avoid us.
- HeyLaughingBoy 5y ago
  This isn't a useful observation unless you can tell us why you think so.
marcinzm 5y ago
Giving a coding assignment that would take 10+ hours and then pinging me why I didn't finish it before the weekend?
- taude 5y ago
  What kind of coding assignments are people asking be completed that take 10 hours?
  - marcinzm 5y ago
    This was a data science take home for a Director level position. Multiple data sets, domain specific, bad/missing data that you had to discover, predictions needed that combine disparate data types together, data is complex enough that off the shelf models wouldn't work, writeup of how to deploy in production, etc. I estimated 10+ hours to do it even half properly and that was probably an underestimate even if you got lucky with your first approach.
ellard 5y ago
Not currently interviewing, but in the past i've failed interviews because I didn't do something that the interviewer didn't ask me to do. This would be something like expecting the interviewee to go in depth about a specific part of the problem that to the interviewee might have thought was trivial, or expecting them to do TDD in a coding exercise when the interviewer never mentioned it. I can brush off overt rudeness, but it's always rubbed me the wrong way that some interviewers expect you to read their mind.
- ryanbrunner 5y ago
  I've seen the TDD one, and I hate that so much. The last time I interviewed for companies, I started asking "how do you want me to answer this? Are you looking for me to get a complete solution quickly, or write this like I was writing software I planned to maintain?", but I really shouldn't have to - putting your candidates through a guessing game of which you want is a dumb way to interview.
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  - flyfishnjake 5y ago
    I had a recruiter suggest I do TDD during my coding interviews. When I was in the interviews, I started using TDD. It seemed like the actual interviewer was indifferent about me using TDD. He even seemed surprised, but I did it anyway because the recruiter suggested it. Using TDD takes longer during an interview, so I didn't get as far into the problem as what I think the interviewer was expecting. I assume people that didn't use TDD performed better because they were able to get farther in the problem. I didn't get an offer. I'm not sure if it's because of the TDD issue, but I can't think of anything else that could have contributed to the outcome. I sent my feedback to the recruiter after I was notified I didn't get an offer, and I asked for any feedback, but never heard anything.
- simonbarker87 5y ago
  One of the things I’ve written in my book on coding interviews is around expectations and covering off any shortcuts/interview specific things you are doing. It’s annoying but asking: 1. Is there a specific approach or methodology you would like me to take in this test? 2. Saying stuff like “I’m going to do this in functional/OOP”, “I’ll use print for debugging”, “I won’t be using a testing library” etc with a quick explanation goes along way to ironing out these differences
maximp 5y ago
Lack of presence. Any interviewer that's not giving the interview as much of their full attention as possible (emergencies aside, of course). I've been on both sides of this, and I feel bad for interviews I've given where I was distracted or underprepared. Conversely, my best interviews (and 1:1s) have been with people who are fully present.
- tayo42 5y ago
  > and I feel bad for interviews I've given where I was distracted I had this happen, i had his resume up on my screen for the interview and i was taking notes and suddenly i got a message that there was some big production issue i had to help with, so yeah i couldn't focus on the interview. I still feel bad about that
  - ryanbrunner 5y ago
    I've had this, and it's honestly just better to duck out, apologize and reschedule the interview. If you're worried about candidate experience make sure to get back to them within an hour or two - if the production issue takes much longer than that you've probably blown your chances anyway just by virtue of giving the impression that multiple hour production issues happen with any regularity.
simonbarker87 5y ago
Really minor but I interviewed with a big second tier tech company that you’ve heard of and right after asking me the first question decided that would be the best time to raise his standing desk, which was very slow to raise and required him to sort of weird hover and stand in time with the camera as it rose. Not rude but really distracting.
- asimpletune 5y ago
  Haha did he pretend to “walk down the stairs” after that?
  - simonbarker87 5y ago
    Haha, that might have made it a bit less awkward to be honest - heck, even saying “hey, I’ve planned badly, I’m just going to pop up my standing desk” would have been enough
- jstx1 5y ago
  This is so minor that I don't think it belongs; I'm surprised you even remembered that it happened.
  - simonbarker87 5y ago
    I remember it because it was an amusing and slightly weird interaction in hindsight. I remember all sorts of odd actions from me and others over the years. If you don’t absorb and remember how others act around you (and how they react to your own actions) then you can’t improve your own actions in the future. That seems like such an obvious thing to do I don’t think it needs stating; I’m surprised you even thought to bring it up.
- scrapcode 5y ago
  The 3rd person view of this in my mind is hilarious.
WorldMaker 5y ago
I've had multiple interviewers over the years tell me to my face that they didn't think that my education was useful/valid/rigorous because it wasn't Stanford (or MIT). Though I'd still prefer that to the ones that told me that my more than a decade of professional experience isn't useful/valid because my parts of the industry "chose the wrong programming languages". I particularly loved the hypocrisy of getting that criticism from a company trying to win more companies like the ones I've worked for to their Cloud platforms. It seemed pretty obvious why they were having difficulty winning some of them over to their platform if they absolutely just hated the languages they worked with.
silisili 5y ago
Haven't had anyone overtly rude, but one strange experience. Did a live coding and they said something along the lines of being one of the fastest to complete it and scheduled another call. So far so good. Follow up call with some higher up on "culture". The guy seemed like a parody human, reminded me of PC Principal, 'out here crushin it bra on the daily', that type. Except he wasn't some young out of college bro, but some 40ish guy in a shirt and tie. He really spoke at me the whole time, I don't remember saying much. Maybe he saw my disdain, maybe I rolled my eyes, I don't remember. About 20 mins after that call I got a rejection email. Very odd experience, but I assume I dodged a bullet.
- 3np 5y ago
  One of those guys that instinctively need to have every moment filled with talk, and if there’s a moment of breathing room he sees it as his duty to pick up your slack? If so you were expected to interrupt him. Yeah, sounds like “not a culture fit”. I wouldn’t have been, either.
monkeybutton 5y ago
I've had candidates do their phone interviews by walking out of the office they're working at currently. It was awesome trying to understand their answers as a motorcycle rips past on the street. I think its just a lack of respect and self effort awareness on all sides. Just think about what you are going to be doing ahead of time is all it takes.
- ryanbrunner 5y ago
  This is a tricky one, and I can't really fault an interviewee if it's a 30 minute phone screen. Cafes can be just as bad as out on the street for noise, most candidates won't be comfortable getting a meeting room in their office, and finding space to have a quiet call for just 30 minutes can be really difficult.
- HeyLaughingBoy 5y ago
  That can be difficult. When I worked in an industrial office park, I could go out to my car to do a phone interview. When I was working downtown, where I didn't drive to work, there was pretty much nowhere to go that wouldn't involve some kind of background noise.
- szszrk 5y ago
  I did that myself. Actually did like 4-5 hours of calls in total like that with one company. I have zero bad feelings and the interviewers were cool about it. I just can't afford to take 4-5 days off each time someone thinks we might be a good match and needs a 30 minutes (which is always more). When I'm motivated to switch jobs I might talk to a few companies and all interactions are kind of short and in the middle of day. They seldom want to meet at 7 am or at 6 pm. Middle of the day? Sure, but we both understand it means finding a middle ground.
- codegeek 5y ago
  It is tough for people who have to take 30 mins out of their day job for an interview. I get that and respect that. However, I look for an explanation right at the beginning which shows that they have humility and understand that this it not ideal but this is the best they can do considering they are at work. However, if they expect me to "get it" without them even mentioning at beginning, I take that as a sign of "I am so good so I couldn't care less about telling you why I cannot do the interview in an ideal setting".
narraturgy 5y ago
Treating me like a child because I'm applying for new grad/junior positions. If they looked at my birthdate they'd notice I'm 30. I'm trying to support a family, and I am unavailable during the days because I am working full time to support that goal, but they want me to participate in 2-3 interview steps which could range anywhere from 15 minutes to 4 hours and it's apparently rude of me to ask for that information beforehand so I can try to get my current job not to fire me for constantly taking time off with relatively short notice.
- zerbin 5y ago
  This shit is so difficult. I took technical interviews in gas station parking lots on lunch breaks, used my 1 sick day per month to try to get a break out of my terrible entry-level law office job, where I too would be fired if I needed to take next Tuesday afternoon off without explanation. It took leaving that job and a little bit of a leap of faith to finally get some flexibility to get those interviews that were worth it.
- klipklop 5y ago
  I feel you. I am going to go into interview number FOUR tomorrow and I have not even gotten to the 'onsite.' From there it's another four interviews. Trust me that it does not get any better at the 'senior' level either. Sure feel sorry for the next-gen kids that will have to put up with 8-10 interviews (at a single company, for a single role) or more just to land a job. Maybe we should blame how hard it is to fire people?
karaterobot 5y ago
I've never dealt with a rude interviewer. A friend of mine mentioned that her interviewer showed up 10 minutes late to the call, then interviewed her for an entirely different position (and wouldn't change course after being told as much), all while peeling an eating a small orange.
mytailorisrich 5y ago
When the interviewer is obviously discovering my CV during the interview. When the interviewer demeans you by boasting about their company's/team's achievements while implying "why are you here?" (well, you've invited me, remember?)
- itronitron 5y ago
  I once had an interviewer boast about their accomplishments and how important they were at their previous employer. It was very confusing since I wasn't applying for a position at their previous employer.
donquichotte 5y ago
In interviewed at a local startup [1] and had a nice chat with one of the founders. We talked about 1h. It was pleasant and I got a code review assignment, timeboxed to 1h. Not sure if I managed to do something useful, but I handed back my solution in time and never heard from them again. I pinged them once more, but no response. I have not been able to figure out what that was about... maybe they were trying to get external people to review their code? Like, 1h of their time for 2h of mine? Or were they just not very well organized? [1] https://www.vay.ai/ https://www.vay.ai/
- m0ck 5y ago
  Props to you for publishing the startup's name!
- kube-system 5y ago
  If it's a small startup where the founders are doing first interviews, then I'm sure they're just overwhelmed with tasks. I don't see what the value would be in having a founder chat with you for 1 hour to get a 1 hour code review out of you... unless they think your time is more valuable than their founders, which doesn't make much sense.
KaiserPro 5y ago
I had one interview at a financial "family office" where a rich person forms a company to manage their investments. In this case it was a high profile trade who was banned from taking customers. I was brought in, I mined the front of house staff. Its always good to see how they are feeling. Plus if you are nice to them, you get the good biscuits. They looked fine, until they started talking about the CEO/boss. They then looked stressed. The interview started started a bit odd, the first person that interviewd me was nice, but looked at my CV and said: "well youre a linux guy like me, but they really want a windows guy" I thought it was a bit odd as the job spec was mostly linux hooked to AD (which was a dark art at the time, one I had mastered.) Interviewer one went out and brought in the "head of engineering/systems/something". I was treated to four sneering people. The "Header" started off with "oh you can't do windows can you?" I replied that I can hold my own(insert story about AD migration) This shut him up a bit, and made him more hostile. His acolytes (think crabbe and goyle plus two extras) The interview reached a natural end. I was then told to go out and get lunch, and come back for more interviews. I leave my stuff there and go out for lunch, and come back at the ascribed time. I walk through the door to where stuff was, I can here a stage whisper "OH my god, he's come back, whats he doing here? No you tell him to go." Neeedless to say I did(Edit did not) get the job. I wrote a message to the recruiter explaining what happened, and that I expect grownups to tell me to my fucking face that they've made a mistake.
- erehweb 5y ago
  You mean "Needless to day I didn't get the job"?
  - KaiserPro 5y ago
    sorry, yes!
m0ck 5y ago
I witnessed candidate being rejected literally because in his take-home assignment "he did only what we asked for and nothing extra on the top".
- nowherebeen 5y ago
  Looks like the candidate dodged a bullet.
c2h5oh 5y ago
Mostly by fucking about the pay: - By refusing to disclose salary range and insisting I should go through the process before they can tell me. They don't get an interview. - By trying paint their company as a startup despite over a billion dollars in investor money or, in one case, being publicly traded. Used to justify below market rate salary. - By claiming role is fully remote and then slashing salary range at the very end of the process "if you want to work remotely". - By offering salary range reduced by 40-70% if you are not in US. Doesn't matter that cost of living in Canada or western Europe is not lower. They are paying for the value I'm bringing, so my location should only matter for tax and timezone purposes. As for situations you described only once I've had someone join the call while driving - 2nd interviewer. I made a joke about the purpose of the whole process for them to have one more employee not one less because he's driving distracted, suggested we should reschedule when everyone can safely fully focus on the interview. They apologized, rescheduled and then offered me salary of 45% of the lower end of the initial range, because while I was "more than qualified for the role they had a multiplier for Canada that applied here".
- b20000 5y ago
  cost of living in california is 4x what it is in western europe
  - nondave 5y ago
    Depends where in California and where in Western Europe
    - lhorie 5y ago
      I assume they mean in an apples-to-apples comparison, not tent-city in SF vs mansion in Warsaw
      - watermelon0 5y ago
        If we are comparing expensive cities, we might as well start with Geneva: > You would need around 7,858.14$ (7,254.94Fr.) in Geneva to maintain the same standard of life that you can have with 8,300.00$ in San Francisco, CA (assuming you rent in both cities). Although other countries/cities in Europe are cheaper than this, you should know that Switzerland has extremely low income tax, compared to others.
tayo42 5y ago
I had some guy do a phone interview from the beach, idk about rude but that was annoying. anyone who ghosts after multiple interviews I find it annoying when people start lecturing me about their hate of some tech. I did some "open book" on site programing quiz, i looked up the syntax for else if in python and the guy goes "hmm do you really know python?" i switch between like 3 languages, so yeah ill double check syntax... i need to think of more, i hate interviews. It feels like the smaller the company the worse the interview experience is. funny enough i think facebook was the most pleasant interview i did
Oras 5y ago
Two years ago, I applied via a recruiter, and made my position clear about my salary expectations. It was a 30 minutes video call, followed by a test to design a system, which took me around 8 hours to finish (I used sequence diagrams and detailed documentation). After that it was a meet and greet interview for 45 minutes and I asked for another 30 minutes to ask questions and understand the expectations. I received an offer few days later, 30% less of what I asked for! I immediately told the recruiter I lost my interest even when they increased the offer to be close to what I have asked for.
- simonbarker87 5y ago
  I had this last year, came in about the same amount lower. I said no, expressed my annoyance that the recruiter had wasted my time. They came back at 15% less, I said no again. They then said “ok you’re too expensive” I replied with “no problem, I understand you have a budget limitation, I hope you find what you’re looking for soon”. 2 weeks later they come back 20% over what I asked for, had accepted another role by then and said “no, next time, just offer what’s asked”
cglan 5y ago
They've been rude in a variety of ways. The big one though is simply ghosting me after 5+ rounds with no explanation. This has happened a variety of times and reaching out usually gets a non response. It's infuriating. The others are just not being professional. Wearing pajamas or not paying attention or acting incredibly disinterested. It's really terrible.
- m0ck 5y ago
  >This has happened a variety of times and reaching out usually gets a non response Name & shame
  - cglan 5y ago
    Salesforce - Mulesoft subsidiary. Microsoft but they eventually got back to me 2 months later. Still disrespectful in my opinion Hashicorp
- sys_64738 5y ago
  I don't take that personally. If I don't hear anything within a period of time then I get they've moved on. There's no utility for them to be in contact anymore with me. It's unprofessional but I get why it occurs and don't feel slight.
  - cglan 5y ago
    You should feel upset. It’s basic courtesy to say “we don’t want you”. This is not dating it’s literally a massive corporation it costs them nothing to send a rejection email instead of leaving you in purgatory
gorgoiler 5y ago
Interviewing me then offering me a role without an accompanying offer of compensation. Especially after being evasive about comp at every prior step. Your “competitive” salary turned out to be $65k, after I’d become gotten all excited about the role? Owch. You want to hear about my market research on the local employment market before you pitch a number? No: that’s your job. You want a salary range from me despite you having a 10x better grasp on the responsibilities of the role than I do, which also happens to be secret info in the negotiation because you never came up with a written job spec? Well. You are now at the back of my priority list of potential future employers I’m talking to. If you decide you want to hire me then, I’m sorry to tell say, the next move is for you to make me an offer. We can schedule another chat if you like but I’m just going to pitch why I’m the person for the job again, then wait for you to make me an offer. No, you also don’t get to know anything about my current salary.
itronitron 5y ago
Unfortunately, in a job interview it is very likely that the person being rude is doing that in order to test how you respond. I've witnessed it during a group interview and I lost all respect for the interviewer, who was a group manager, especially after they explained in the review meeting why they did it. Personally I think it is a lame tactic and that there are better ways to learn how a person adapts to a confusing social interaction.
- MaxBarraclough 5y ago
  > Unfortunately, in a job interview it is very likely that the person being rude is doing that in order to test how you respond See 'stress interview'. [0][1][2] (It's discouraging to see that walk out didn't make the cut for the advice list of either [0] or [1].) > Personally I think it is a lame tactic and that there are better ways to learn how a person adapts to a confusing social interaction. One could argue this discriminates against applicants with social disabilities. [0] https://www.interview-skills.co.uk/free-information/interview-guide/stress-interviews https://www.interview-skills.co.uk/free-information/intervie... [1] https://www.topinterview.co.uk/interview-advice/what-is-a-stress-interview https://www.topinterview.co.uk/interview-advice/what-is-a-st... [2] https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20190201-the-stress-interview-a-technique-that-goes-too-far https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20190201-the-stress-int...
- amatecha 5y ago
  Yeah seriously, interviews are stressful enough. Even managing one with calm and composure is already a major "plus" for any candidate IMO.
- muttled 5y ago
  Like how scammers intentionally use misspellings to filter for people likely to fall for the scam, maybe they're trying to see who can take abuse?
dtt101 5y ago
Saying that the interview is more of an ‘informal conversation’ then quickfiring 30 questions in an hour while not looking at the screen.
AtNightWeCode 5y ago
Patronizing interviewers. Have not met any myself but worked with that kind of people. People that start off an interview with a 30 min lesson why the interviewer is better than the candidate. The worst hiring though is when you are asked to take a code test and you can clearly see from the extent of the test that they want a POC for something. I was given a code test that was basically a complete MS paint. I did not do it and then the company complained about it. I did not even apply for the job in the first place. Some big companies…
- kube-system 5y ago
  Yeah, the most frustrating recruiting call I've ever had was someone like this. I was having a discussion with a recruiter about the company's software platform they had developed. Any time I said 'platform', the recruiter would interrupt me and say "no, it's an ecosystem". They were wrong anyway, the hiring company itself called it a "platform" on their own website. It was one of the strangest and most dead-end discussions I've ever had.
bad_interivewee 5y ago
have had a few of these experiences one interviewer was watching their laptop and typing (slack?) and made almost no eye contact the entire time. it started with dead silence for a bit, then "what questions do you have for me". and that question was repeated 2 or 3 times after I finished with my reply, then it was just over. another time, after the first 10 or so minutes of talking on the phone, the interviewer said "well I don't know if this department will open up, but you should try applying at company x or company y" and that was it. this was for a new department in the company - I assume they would not be interviewing if it was a long shot, and I was referred by an employee. pure waste of time. a couple other similar stories I am forgetting at the moment, then the usual ghosting/late arrivals/condescension about education and work history.
- yjftsjthsd-h 5y ago
  > one interviewer was watching their laptop and typing (slack?) and made almost no eye contact the entire time. it started with dead silence for a bit, then "what questions do you have for me". and that question was repeated 2 or 3 times after I finished with my reply, then it was just over. In this case it does sound like they weren't actually paying attention to you, but FWIW, when I interview people I have a checklist of questions[0] and take notes on my laptop so I would be typing and at least glancing at the screen. On the other hand, it's obvious that that's what I'm doing, not least because I tell candidates so. [0] Or at least topics that I want to make sure we cover.
wrnr 5y ago
Interviewer asked me if I wanted something to drink, and I was like: water is all good with me. He brings me a glass and I take a sip. The tast was absolutely foul, acidic with a taste I just couldn't place. In the most civilised way possible I spit the water back into the glass. Sorry I say, there must have been some mistake here, maybe some detergent left after cleaning. The interviewer looks horrified at me and acts all offended, rolls his eyes and mutters under his breath: It is just cucumber and rose pedal leaves, it's not like I would want to poison you. The interview continues with this foul stank in my mouth and I my head racing with who/what/why cucumbers? On the way out I pass by the kitchen and see this giant jar of water, something right out of a chemistry lab of a mad scientist, with cucumbers and rose pedals flouting in it.
- gattr 5y ago
  Interesting. I haven't seen it here in Europe, but there is such a jar in Mrs. Nguyen's nail salon in the TV series "Better Call Saul" [1]. (Well, I'm not sure about the rose petals.) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIg9WdWJoME https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIg9WdWJoME
jareklupinski 5y ago
a long time ago, I interviewed for a technical but still customer-facing position (think forward-sales engineer) for two hours the two interviewers basically took turns, one asking me specific things about my resume, while the other would make a show of how disinterested or bored they were. it was a bit comical to watch a 60-year old director enthusiastically check email, so I kind of picked up on this being one of those 'behavior tests' after being hired and witnessing the same behavior from our actual clients whenever we hemmed or hawed about anything on our company's sales sheet, I asked one of the interviewers (who had become my director) and they said basically the idea was to filter out the people who would have soon become angry at their own customers
geogra4 5y ago
About a month or so ago I had a very rude interview with the person who would have been my manager at a very large and well known FinTech company. I had already passed the phone screen, the 2/3rd rounds, and did well enough on the on-site to warrant a final interview to see if I was to make the cut - I was told it would be focused on the technical presentation I prepared as part of the on-site. The interview started off ok, just confirming the company I worked for and the industry I'm in. I had trusted the other interviewers at that company to be honest and ask questions in good faith and they all were for the most part. However, this specific interviewer used some leading questions in order to prove a point about how FinTech is far superior in complexity to the industry I worked in and I wouldn't be able to hang. We didn't talk much about my presentation. Very rude for a guy who had only been there 4 months and didn't come from fintech himself. I'm bitter about it but ultimately I wouldn't have wanted to work for him anyway.
mrjay42 5y ago
The use of the word "expert" FOR EVERYTHING. Something I always specify in interviews: being an expert at something, for me, means that I could write a book about it. So, I prefer to say "I am good at <this>", instead of saying "expert". The problem is this leads to unclear skill appreciation!! Like, yes, I spent the last 5 years coding partial differential equations in parallel mainly using C. Would I call myself an expert in C? No. Never. I am good at it? yes. So why is this rude? Because, in case you have sense of honesty and/or the simple inability to call yourself an expert about everything, this can lead to discussion where you have to explain "oh ok, I am not an expert at numerical analysis and solving PDE's but still it was a big part of my last position...so I am probably more of an expert compared to the 22 year old guy that just came out of school who PRETENDS he is an expert at this". --- The almost SYSTEMATICAL use of "C/C++" as if it's a thing. No, sorry, a thousand times "NO", being a C developer is a thing, being a C++ developer is another thing. It's possible to be both, but it's FAR from being systematical. It's as if we would see everywhere "Java/Javascript" -> see the heresy? So this is not exactly "rude" but terribly annoying having to go into details when answering questions about "C/C++" in interviews: "so, well, I am a good C developer but I am just ok at C++ because, you know? C and C++ are not the same thing AT ALL?"...seeing the sense of confusion in their eyes at that moment is really distressing. --- People from full-HR background trying to pretend they know something about the field because they know the words/keywords. You know? Like, I am not a biologist, I know the word "DNA" but would I, in front of a biologist that I am recruiting for some reasons, pretend that I KNOW what DNA is? No, I wouldn't and I shouldn't. Actually, maybe a good idea could be: -> test the communication skills of somebody: "Explain to me what is <this>" (DNA, for instance, or anything else). So, no, sorry it's not because you know the words "cloud" or "Python" or "server" that you are an expert and talk like you are one. ---- Companies/HR people/Business People trying to oversell the company, particularly going into the "we are so much a good-humane company". It's "rude" in the sense, that we all know that most of the time it's bullshit. And/or in any case, people claiming that are not the people you're gonna end up working with on a daily basis anyway. ---- Coding test for senior positions. I have more than 10 years of experience. Two master's degrees in Computer Science. And a PhD also in Computer Science. So, Yes. I. Can. Code. I also know that I am not "the best at coding". I am not trying to be the best at coding...because I am unable of doing so and also because...I am over 23? (or pick any age that would make sens to you) ---- Recruitment process that is solely composed of technical test or if you prefer, when the company is not actually recruiting a human being. I mean, on a not too big company (below 200 people), doing really advanced stuff (way above the typical software engineering kind of work), one could expect a company would try to NOT ONLY get the matching skills but also the matching personality.
tomcooks 5y ago
Answering with the following when I ask again (after they disappeared for months) for a salary range: "Thanks for the quick response, but I'd rather not move forward without hearing your salary requirements. Having asked a few times and still not received an answer, we're going to move on in another direction."
JoeAltmaier 5y ago
It's not rude to negotiate on salary. That thought is laced throughout these comments. Understand that when interviewing, work duties vs salary is the entire conversation. By definition it is not rude to perform that function.
- jgwil2 5y ago
  No one is claiming that it is rude to negotiate on salary. What people are claiming is rude is when companies allow candidates to go through a lengthy interviewing process when they already know that their budget doesn't align with the candidate's asking price. That is a waste of everyone's time.
  - JoeAltmaier 5y ago
    ...not matching what I read. Folks giving up after the first (low) offer, only to get a better one a few days later. This is how it works. It can take a little time. If you get butt-hurt on the first offer and go off somewhere else, you're leaving money on the table.
rkk3 5y ago
Several rounds in the take home was assigned 100% verbally ... and then after submitting the take home, not even bothering to send a rejection email.
maerF0x0 5y ago
probably the biggest rude thing I encounter is people who have take home assignments that "only take an hour" and in reality is total bullshit and it's like 10+ hrs. Like implement a LRU cache as a http API that also implements the redis protocol... And if you ever complain about the time they often say "other candidates found it fine" (c'mon use some common sense, people lie about how long it takes them)
clusterhacks 5y ago
Interviewer fell asleep in front of me 30 minutes into a 60 min interview. It was a morning interview that started at 9 AM.
szszrk 5y ago
Oh, I've got a few! Interviewer was late 45 minutes. When he came he was angry that I was in the wrong place. It was a closed office, invitations only, I was guided by a front desk lady who knew what I came for. They rejected me, as they forgot to mention they need some fiber channel storage admin. I didn't even heard names of those things before, as stated earlier by phone. They called again few months later, said it was a mistake and that person left company. Proposed another meeting. I politely denied. Went through quite long process (also used 2 days off for that) that was actually a lot of fun, to inform me at the end they have budget for 60% of what I asked for earlier. That was lower then my first job ever in IT. Few months later called again saying they raised the budget and can afford me now. Wasted another day off to be informed that new budget was around 65% of my asking... Interviewer forced me to arrange a day off at old company to inform me they don't have the job (their client had budget cuts they were surprised with), in person. Then pretended it's not him while I waited in the hallway. Details: My interviewer arranged a welcome day on my future-company on Monday, more than a week ahead. I was supposed to meet the team, do some internal trainings, get remote logins maybe. I took a full day off just for that and he knew about it. Came as arranged, office was empty, doors closed. Interviewer walked past me a few times without saying hi while I waited for almost an hour on an empty hallway. Then suddenly invited in, said they don't have that position due to lost client and we'll figure out what to do later on. It took 3 minutes. I already quit my old job. We tore our signed contract after a few weeks and pretended it never happened, but it took me several months to clean that mess up.
ACow_Adonis 5y ago
I dislike bad faith questions or tests. I took part in a Facebook recruitment competition (this was many years ago when it was less obvious how evil they were going to be). They gave us some data and some notional analytics task and your goal was to maximise a certain prediction metric. The catch was that they had errors/repetitions in the data such that you could exploit it to maximise the prediction score by methods largely unconnected to the notional analytics. This allowed some to get scores miles above accuracy reported in the literature, to the point where it wasn't physically possible to do that well. I'm still not convinced it wasn't an error on their part or that it wasn't an inside job. I discovered this and basically made the claim that some of the other scores others were getting weren't possible, and in the process of chasing down what the "cheaters" were doing, they came clean with the "oh, it's part of the job to assume/find such problems in the data and exploit it". So then everyone changed their models to include this little hack and the competition continued on the remainder of the data after wasting most of our time. but it left a really bad taste in my mouth. first of all, the metric is now meaningless in this case, so no, it's not an analysts job to exploit errors to maximise a meaningless metric. secondly, just do things in good faith: if you give me a data set and tell me it's a certain thing, I'm going to believe you. if it's dodgy or you're interested in OTHER things, then tell me so we can stop fucking around, because this isn't real life and I've got no idea what contrived thing it is you're looking for in this finite and time restricted exercise. if you want me to find some contrived thing, then at least tell me that's part of it. gotchas where they're fucking with you or dishonest about what they're actually doing in the process are the worst. especially if they're actually incompetent, made a mistake and they're too proud to admit that fact.
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vanusa 5y ago
They flat out lie during the negotiation process. You get asked to sit in a room for a "couple of minutes". Ends up being more like 30. You get there, the people you're supposed to talk to "aren't available", they have some other random underlings talk to to keep you busy. You're talking to them, they act bored or distracted. They play with their phones, take calls. They whiteboard you clearly without any preparation. Sometimes pulling a problem more or less out of their ass (logically incoherent and/or mathematically intractable). They give you lengthy take-home problems, which would clearly take 4x as long to do in an actual work environment. And surprise, they don't set up the environment right, or the data you're supposed to go fetch just isn't there anymore (or has changed), or the requirements are just plain incoherent. Oh and then they ghost you.
genezeta 5y ago
This happened about Q1 2019 or something like that IIRC. I went into the interview with a couple of red flags already. The main one is that the person at the recruiting company told me something like I should go in "with an open mind and calm", that they were very "harsh" and they used to do "very tough interviews" and that other interviewees had commented they didn't like it much. Anyway, I went in. I met with the Chief People Officer and the Head of Engineering, and yes, right from the start they were... I don't know, maybe they just had a somewhat impatient tone. Not too bad. But as we went on, they got increasingly so. They tended to cut me short on all the questions they asked. I know I sometimes do talk too much, so I just tried not to and that's it. It was... a bit weird, but just that. It didn't feel that tough. Then they asked about me having imparted some classes and trainings... "Maybe, 5, 6 people?" me> Sometimes more, like 10 or 20. It depends. them> Yeah, so then you feel a knot in your stomach, right? me> Ah... no, not rea... them> What are you, made of stone?? me> Well, no, but I've done it many times so I don't rea... They kept interrupting and trying to lead me to say whatever things they wanted. Since I wasn't, they got increasingly aggressive, sometimes raising their voice unexpectedly. They took turns at interrupting, at repeatedly asking some things, etc. They always asked things in the negative e.g. "you surely have never worked with..." or "you probably only know basic JavaScript, right?", and most of that was already in my resume so I had to answer by correcting them a lot. After this went on for maybe 30-40 minutes, they finally got enough of it and offered if there was anything I wanted to ask. They hadn't really told me much at all about their project, technology... really about anything, expect for a very generic overview. So I did want to ask. I started with something I thought easy. me> So, you mentioned this is a Java project; is it Spring based? them> That's none of your business. me> Sorry? them> You don't need to know. You'll be working on the front so whatever. me> Well, I would like to have a better overview of the project. Knowing the technologies may give me a better idea of the general state of the code... them> THE CODE IS FINE. We wrote it and it's great code. me> Yes, of course, sorry. I didn't mean it that as not being good, just get an idea of the age, the general structure... Very reluctantly, they explained that it was a Struts (1.2.x) application. But not really. Apparently they had sort of forked Struts internally to do some "tricky stuff" from the JSPs, or whatever. They were really unwilling to explain much at all and the little I got out of them was with constant snorting and chuckling at anything I asked clarification for, like I was waiting their precious time. I would have but didn't dare to ask much else. And I had lost all interest anyway. So we ended the interview after a few more minutes. I kindly said goodbye. The CPO was amiable enough to shake my hand -again, this was mid-2019- but the Head of Engineering didn't feel like doing that and simply remained seating looking at something or other on their phone. This would have been weird enough. The next day I spoke to the person from the recruiting company. I told her, without going into details, that I felt they had been quite aggressive, even to the point of being rude. She laughed nervously and agreed that they could sometimes be "a bit abrupt". Anyway, I told her, I wasn't interested; I didn't think any good could come out of that. KTHXBAI and that's it, I thought. But somehow, it seems they asked the recruiter for my number and, for whatever reason, she agreed and gave it to them. So about a couple of hours later, an unknown number calls and it's the Head of Engineering. They are... well, not cordial, but at least a tiny bit more agreeable than the day before. They ask what I think, about the project, the position, the offer... me> Ah, sorry. I already told [recruiter] from [recruiting company]. After our interview yesterday, I don't think this is what I am looking for. The project seems nice but at this moment I'm not interest... them> OH, YEAH?! Well, then just know that WE'RE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU EITHER!! And click, they just hanged up on me.
waylandsmithers 5y ago
In my most recent job search: 1) Acting surprised I wasn't going to do the coding exercise in Java, when Java wasn't on my resume 2) Not believing that JavaScript doesn't have some of the string functions that Java has 3) Ghosting instead of formally saying they aren't moving forward edit: From my working experience though, sometimes HR and recruiting are really in their own world and not indicative of the whole company. At a past job that was the most amazing place work, recruiting would do things like double booking people on multiple simultaneous interviews, sending meeting invites at night for the next morning, refusing to cancel interviews for candidates interviewing for jobs that were already filled "just in case" and other fun adventures we had to figure out how to try to navigate in the moment.
schmookeeg 5y ago
Had an interviewer boast that she tried to intern at the company, was rejected, and then just never left - "LOL!" (I smiled politely, while horrified) ... while holding "director of HR" title no less. Even more surreal when I took the job, later decided it wasn't my cuppa, and had the exit interview conducted by this same person -- and having to sit there while she provided me absolutely false information about transitioning, asking me to sign a "hush" contract on my way out, and then later not providing final payroll until WAY after the state requirements. Eep. Of course, the joke's on me, they IPO'ed recently and she probably has twice my net worth now. :) C'est la vie!
akamia 5y ago
I interviewed at Microsoft around 2010 and had a horrible interview with a Principal Engineering Manager in Bing. He was my last interviewer of the day and the interview started at 5 PM. I had been there since 10 AM and the only "break" I had was a lunch interview so I was exhausted but I was going to give it my all. Since it was the last interview and he was a manager, I was expecting a culture fit/soft skill interview but it was more whiteboarding. I was surprised but I went with it. I asked some clarifying questions and then I started walking through my solution on the whiteboard. After a few minutes I turned around to ask him a question and he was staring out the window day dreaming. I said "excuse me" and repeated my question. He gave me a brief answer and then turned to stare out the window again. He did this through the entire interview. I was shocked. I understand that it was the end of the day but it was his choice to have the interview loop keep going. I had given them an entire day and he didn't even respect me enough to give me an hour of his attention. I didn't get the job but I'm sure I dodged a bullet if that was what the management was like for that team.

I've had people just be not nice to the point of rudeness, people driving while interviewing, people walking on treadmills out of breath, etc.

syngrog66 5y ago

wouldnt call these rude necessarily, but definitely among the anti-patterns I've experienced: - being coy about pay. "lets hop on the phone!" "it will be competitive!" "well we're just about to get a big funding round and when we do..." "well first we'll need you to jump thru hoops A,B,C... and maybe after that we might tell you..." - in general, wanting to tell me things in a call vs a quick concise async email - in a call, they repeat things already conveyed on their website and in the job description, which I will already have read - no job description/profile (though this can be overlooked sometimes if its truly a broad profile, effectively "smart people who ship, and are nice, and sane") -"requiring" me to do coding tests or challenge projects despite me having mounds of public evidence that I'm a real programmer, and not my 1st rodeo - compounding the above by having the gall to assume I'll gladly spend my valuable free time doing that for them, for 0 pay - saying I can work remotely but NOT from my state (I'd be free to move to a different state and then be allowed to work from my home. what the---?) - my pay will not be private, in the interests of "transparency" -- ok, lets go ahead and make sure every employee and shareholders total financial picture is public, in that same spirit, goose and the gander, etc. no thanks - putting their end on speakerphone - notorious for cutting out speech sounds and worsening audio quality. forcing any part to have to say "what?" or ask to repeat is irritating and makes folks sound a little dumber than otherwise -- just say no, folks. we live in an age of crystal quality telephony audio if we simply choose to use it could add dozens more. again, not sure I'd call any single one "rude", but definitely lots of folks out there who don't seem to think or care about their impact on others. curse of more life experience and care is you increasingly encounter bigger gaps between how things "should be" vs how they are?

kstenerud 5y ago

It shows their professionalism, and how much they value you and your time. Point out their bad behavior and end the interview. They failed. Consider it a good thing because you might have actually accepted a job there, and then you'd have wasted a ton of time and effort for nothing.

sillysaurusx 5y ago

They keep giving me questions from TopCoder. Stop doing TopCoder-based interviewing. You're ruining your company this way. I'm offended on principle.

kerneloftruth 5y ago
I've walked out on a couple of interviews when they tried whiteboard coding. I politely laughed and said I really don't do performance art. I thanked them for their time and left.
- drenvuk 5y ago
  What? What would you rather have? A takehome? People find a reason to complain about those as well because the ones administering them become really god damned nitpicky. What I try to give is a three parter simple string parsing manipulation question where you build on each successive part as well as providing both valid and invalid inputs for them to use as test cases. It shows organizational skills and the ability to break down problems into reusable parts as well as the super basics of string parsing. I think being able to do that much under time pressure shows the learned qualities of a programmer since most will go with what's been ingrained into them by way of habit. I can understand brain teasers being a poor measure of ability but I'm super on board for online whiteboarding when done properly. 45 minutes, no muss, no fuss. No 6 hours on a weekend to make something. No impenetrable question that requires tricks you don't need for day to day work that you can later look up.
  - shados 5y ago
    There's more and more companies that don't give you coding exercises at all. They'll have code reviews, or a debugging exercise, system design, all the other stuff, but will skip the algo question. I hate algo/whiteboarding myself, especially complex ones, but I think there's some value in doing some minimal in person fizz-buzzing, especially if you work for a very popular company. The amount of people who can talk through interviews all day long but can't code is too high not to at least attempt to filter them out. What I do is give a very simple question, and make it clear that its not a "gotcha" question and that I just want to talk through with them how they'd solve it, to at least filter out the "deer in headlights" candidates. No one walked out of that to this day.

deadalus 5y ago

They(rude interviewers) think that you are taking something from them, that you are after something they have. They believe that we(people looking for a job) are parasites, so they want to avoid us.

HeyLaughingBoy 5y ago
This isn't a useful observation unless you can tell us why you think so.

marcinzm 5y ago

Giving a coding assignment that would take 10+ hours and then pinging me why I didn't finish it before the weekend?

taude 5y ago
What kind of coding assignments are people asking be completed that take 10 hours?
- marcinzm 5y ago
  This was a data science take home for a Director level position. Multiple data sets, domain specific, bad/missing data that you had to discover, predictions needed that combine disparate data types together, data is complex enough that off the shelf models wouldn't work, writeup of how to deploy in production, etc. I estimated 10+ hours to do it even half properly and that was probably an underestimate even if you got lucky with your first approach.

ellard 5y ago

Not currently interviewing, but in the past i've failed interviews because I didn't do something that the interviewer didn't ask me to do. This would be something like expecting the interviewee to go in depth about a specific part of the problem that to the interviewee might have thought was trivial, or expecting them to do TDD in a coding exercise when the interviewer never mentioned it. I can brush off overt rudeness, but it's always rubbed me the wrong way that some interviewers expect you to read their mind.

ryanbrunner 5y ago
I've seen the TDD one, and I hate that so much. The last time I interviewed for companies, I started asking "how do you want me to answer this? Are you looking for me to get a complete solution quickly, or write this like I was writing software I planned to maintain?", but I really shouldn't have to - putting your candidates through a guessing game of which you want is a dumb way to interview.
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- flyfishnjake 5y ago
  I had a recruiter suggest I do TDD during my coding interviews. When I was in the interviews, I started using TDD. It seemed like the actual interviewer was indifferent about me using TDD. He even seemed surprised, but I did it anyway because the recruiter suggested it. Using TDD takes longer during an interview, so I didn't get as far into the problem as what I think the interviewer was expecting. I assume people that didn't use TDD performed better because they were able to get farther in the problem. I didn't get an offer. I'm not sure if it's because of the TDD issue, but I can't think of anything else that could have contributed to the outcome. I sent my feedback to the recruiter after I was notified I didn't get an offer, and I asked for any feedback, but never heard anything.
simonbarker87 5y ago
One of the things I’ve written in my book on coding interviews is around expectations and covering off any shortcuts/interview specific things you are doing. It’s annoying but asking: 1. Is there a specific approach or methodology you would like me to take in this test? 2. Saying stuff like “I’m going to do this in functional/OOP”, “I’ll use print for debugging”, “I won’t be using a testing library” etc with a quick explanation goes along way to ironing out these differences

maximp 5y ago

Lack of presence. Any interviewer that's not giving the interview as much of their full attention as possible (emergencies aside, of course). I've been on both sides of this, and I feel bad for interviews I've given where I was distracted or underprepared. Conversely, my best interviews (and 1:1s) have been with people who are fully present.

tayo42 5y ago
> and I feel bad for interviews I've given where I was distracted I had this happen, i had his resume up on my screen for the interview and i was taking notes and suddenly i got a message that there was some big production issue i had to help with, so yeah i couldn't focus on the interview. I still feel bad about that
- ryanbrunner 5y ago
  I've had this, and it's honestly just better to duck out, apologize and reschedule the interview. If you're worried about candidate experience make sure to get back to them within an hour or two - if the production issue takes much longer than that you've probably blown your chances anyway just by virtue of giving the impression that multiple hour production issues happen with any regularity.

simonbarker87 5y ago

Really minor but I interviewed with a big second tier tech company that you’ve heard of and right after asking me the first question decided that would be the best time to raise his standing desk, which was very slow to raise and required him to sort of weird hover and stand in time with the camera as it rose. Not rude but really distracting.

asimpletune 5y ago
Haha did he pretend to “walk down the stairs” after that?
- simonbarker87 5y ago
  Haha, that might have made it a bit less awkward to be honest - heck, even saying “hey, I’ve planned badly, I’m just going to pop up my standing desk” would have been enough
jstx1 5y ago
This is so minor that I don't think it belongs; I'm surprised you even remembered that it happened.
- simonbarker87 5y ago
  I remember it because it was an amusing and slightly weird interaction in hindsight. I remember all sorts of odd actions from me and others over the years. If you don’t absorb and remember how others act around you (and how they react to your own actions) then you can’t improve your own actions in the future. That seems like such an obvious thing to do I don’t think it needs stating; I’m surprised you even thought to bring it up.
scrapcode 5y ago
The 3rd person view of this in my mind is hilarious.

WorldMaker 5y ago

I've had multiple interviewers over the years tell me to my face that they didn't think that my education was useful/valid/rigorous because it wasn't Stanford (or MIT). Though I'd still prefer that to the ones that told me that my more than a decade of professional experience isn't useful/valid because my parts of the industry "chose the wrong programming languages". I particularly loved the hypocrisy of getting that criticism from a company trying to win more companies like the ones I've worked for to their Cloud platforms. It seemed pretty obvious why they were having difficulty winning some of them over to their platform if they absolutely just hated the languages they worked with.

silisili 5y ago

Haven't had anyone overtly rude, but one strange experience. Did a live coding and they said something along the lines of being one of the fastest to complete it and scheduled another call. So far so good. Follow up call with some higher up on "culture". The guy seemed like a parody human, reminded me of PC Principal, 'out here crushin it bra on the daily', that type. Except he wasn't some young out of college bro, but some 40ish guy in a shirt and tie. He really spoke at me the whole time, I don't remember saying much. Maybe he saw my disdain, maybe I rolled my eyes, I don't remember. About 20 mins after that call I got a rejection email. Very odd experience, but I assume I dodged a bullet.

3np 5y ago
One of those guys that instinctively need to have every moment filled with talk, and if there’s a moment of breathing room he sees it as his duty to pick up your slack? If so you were expected to interrupt him. Yeah, sounds like “not a culture fit”. I wouldn’t have been, either.

monkeybutton 5y ago

I've had candidates do their phone interviews by walking out of the office they're working at currently. It was awesome trying to understand their answers as a motorcycle rips past on the street. I think its just a lack of respect and self effort awareness on all sides. Just think about what you are going to be doing ahead of time is all it takes.

ryanbrunner 5y ago
This is a tricky one, and I can't really fault an interviewee if it's a 30 minute phone screen. Cafes can be just as bad as out on the street for noise, most candidates won't be comfortable getting a meeting room in their office, and finding space to have a quiet call for just 30 minutes can be really difficult.
HeyLaughingBoy 5y ago
That can be difficult. When I worked in an industrial office park, I could go out to my car to do a phone interview. When I was working downtown, where I didn't drive to work, there was pretty much nowhere to go that wouldn't involve some kind of background noise.
szszrk 5y ago
I did that myself. Actually did like 4-5 hours of calls in total like that with one company. I have zero bad feelings and the interviewers were cool about it. I just can't afford to take 4-5 days off each time someone thinks we might be a good match and needs a 30 minutes (which is always more). When I'm motivated to switch jobs I might talk to a few companies and all interactions are kind of short and in the middle of day. They seldom want to meet at 7 am or at 6 pm. Middle of the day? Sure, but we both understand it means finding a middle ground.
codegeek 5y ago
It is tough for people who have to take 30 mins out of their day job for an interview. I get that and respect that. However, I look for an explanation right at the beginning which shows that they have humility and understand that this it not ideal but this is the best they can do considering they are at work. However, if they expect me to "get it" without them even mentioning at beginning, I take that as a sign of "I am so good so I couldn't care less about telling you why I cannot do the interview in an ideal setting".

narraturgy 5y ago

Treating me like a child because I'm applying for new grad/junior positions. If they looked at my birthdate they'd notice I'm 30. I'm trying to support a family, and I am unavailable during the days because I am working full time to support that goal, but they want me to participate in 2-3 interview steps which could range anywhere from 15 minutes to 4 hours and it's apparently rude of me to ask for that information beforehand so I can try to get my current job not to fire me for constantly taking time off with relatively short notice.

zerbin 5y ago
This shit is so difficult. I took technical interviews in gas station parking lots on lunch breaks, used my 1 sick day per month to try to get a break out of my terrible entry-level law office job, where I too would be fired if I needed to take next Tuesday afternoon off without explanation. It took leaving that job and a little bit of a leap of faith to finally get some flexibility to get those interviews that were worth it.
klipklop 5y ago
I feel you. I am going to go into interview number FOUR tomorrow and I have not even gotten to the 'onsite.' From there it's another four interviews. Trust me that it does not get any better at the 'senior' level either. Sure feel sorry for the next-gen kids that will have to put up with 8-10 interviews (at a single company, for a single role) or more just to land a job. Maybe we should blame how hard it is to fire people?

karaterobot 5y ago

I've never dealt with a rude interviewer. A friend of mine mentioned that her interviewer showed up 10 minutes late to the call, then interviewed her for an entirely different position (and wouldn't change course after being told as much), all while peeling an eating a small orange.

mytailorisrich 5y ago

When the interviewer is obviously discovering my CV during the interview. When the interviewer demeans you by boasting about their company's/team's achievements while implying "why are you here?" (well, you've invited me, remember?)

itronitron 5y ago
I once had an interviewer boast about their accomplishments and how important they were at their previous employer. It was very confusing since I wasn't applying for a position at their previous employer.

donquichotte 5y ago

In interviewed at a local startup [1] and had a nice chat with one of the founders. We talked about 1h. It was pleasant and I got a code review assignment, timeboxed to 1h. Not sure if I managed to do something useful, but I handed back my solution in time and never heard from them again. I pinged them once more, but no response. I have not been able to figure out what that was about... maybe they were trying to get external people to review their code? Like, 1h of their time for 2h of mine? Or were they just not very well organized? [1] https://www.vay.ai/ https://www.vay.ai/

m0ck 5y ago
Props to you for publishing the startup's name!
kube-system 5y ago
If it's a small startup where the founders are doing first interviews, then I'm sure they're just overwhelmed with tasks. I don't see what the value would be in having a founder chat with you for 1 hour to get a 1 hour code review out of you... unless they think your time is more valuable than their founders, which doesn't make much sense.

KaiserPro 5y ago

I had one interview at a financial "family office" where a rich person forms a company to manage their investments. In this case it was a high profile trade who was banned from taking customers. I was brought in, I mined the front of house staff. Its always good to see how they are feeling. Plus if you are nice to them, you get the good biscuits. They looked fine, until they started talking about the CEO/boss. They then looked stressed. The interview started started a bit odd, the first person that interviewd me was nice, but looked at my CV and said: "well youre a linux guy like me, but they really want a windows guy" I thought it was a bit odd as the job spec was mostly linux hooked to AD (which was a dark art at the time, one I had mastered.) Interviewer one went out and brought in the "head of engineering/systems/something". I was treated to four sneering people. The "Header" started off with "oh you can't do windows can you?" I replied that I can hold my own(insert story about AD migration) This shut him up a bit, and made him more hostile. His acolytes (think crabbe and goyle plus two extras) The interview reached a natural end. I was then told to go out and get lunch, and come back for more interviews. I leave my stuff there and go out for lunch, and come back at the ascribed time. I walk through the door to where stuff was, I can here a stage whisper "OH my god, he's come back, whats he doing here? No you tell him to go." Neeedless to say I did(Edit did not) get the job. I wrote a message to the recruiter explaining what happened, and that I expect grownups to tell me to my fucking face that they've made a mistake.

erehweb 5y ago
You mean "Needless to day I didn't get the job"?
- KaiserPro 5y ago
  sorry, yes!

m0ck 5y ago

I witnessed candidate being rejected literally because in his take-home assignment "he did only what we asked for and nothing extra on the top".

nowherebeen 5y ago
Looks like the candidate dodged a bullet.

c2h5oh 5y ago

Mostly by fucking about the pay: - By refusing to disclose salary range and insisting I should go through the process before they can tell me. They don't get an interview. - By trying paint their company as a startup despite over a billion dollars in investor money or, in one case, being publicly traded. Used to justify below market rate salary. - By claiming role is fully remote and then slashing salary range at the very end of the process "if you want to work remotely". - By offering salary range reduced by 40-70% if you are not in US. Doesn't matter that cost of living in Canada or western Europe is not lower. They are paying for the value I'm bringing, so my location should only matter for tax and timezone purposes. As for situations you described only once I've had someone join the call while driving - 2nd interviewer. I made a joke about the purpose of the whole process for them to have one more employee not one less because he's driving distracted, suggested we should reschedule when everyone can safely fully focus on the interview. They apologized, rescheduled and then offered me salary of 45% of the lower end of the initial range, because while I was "more than qualified for the role they had a multiplier for Canada that applied here".

b20000 5y ago
cost of living in california is 4x what it is in western europe
- nondave 5y ago
  Depends where in California and where in Western Europe
  - lhorie 5y ago
    I assume they mean in an apples-to-apples comparison, not tent-city in SF vs mansion in Warsaw
    - watermelon0 5y ago
      If we are comparing expensive cities, we might as well start with Geneva: > You would need around 7,858.14$ (7,254.94Fr.) in Geneva to maintain the same standard of life that you can have with 8,300.00$ in San Francisco, CA (assuming you rent in both cities). Although other countries/cities in Europe are cheaper than this, you should know that Switzerland has extremely low income tax, compared to others.

tayo42 5y ago

I had some guy do a phone interview from the beach, idk about rude but that was annoying. anyone who ghosts after multiple interviews I find it annoying when people start lecturing me about their hate of some tech. I did some "open book" on site programing quiz, i looked up the syntax for else if in python and the guy goes "hmm do you really know python?" i switch between like 3 languages, so yeah ill double check syntax... i need to think of more, i hate interviews. It feels like the smaller the company the worse the interview experience is. funny enough i think facebook was the most pleasant interview i did

Oras 5y ago

Two years ago, I applied via a recruiter, and made my position clear about my salary expectations. It was a 30 minutes video call, followed by a test to design a system, which took me around 8 hours to finish (I used sequence diagrams and detailed documentation). After that it was a meet and greet interview for 45 minutes and I asked for another 30 minutes to ask questions and understand the expectations. I received an offer few days later, 30% less of what I asked for! I immediately told the recruiter I lost my interest even when they increased the offer to be close to what I have asked for.

simonbarker87 5y ago
I had this last year, came in about the same amount lower. I said no, expressed my annoyance that the recruiter had wasted my time. They came back at 15% less, I said no again. They then said “ok you’re too expensive” I replied with “no problem, I understand you have a budget limitation, I hope you find what you’re looking for soon”. 2 weeks later they come back 20% over what I asked for, had accepted another role by then and said “no, next time, just offer what’s asked”

cglan 5y ago

They've been rude in a variety of ways. The big one though is simply ghosting me after 5+ rounds with no explanation. This has happened a variety of times and reaching out usually gets a non response. It's infuriating. The others are just not being professional. Wearing pajamas or not paying attention or acting incredibly disinterested. It's really terrible.

m0ck 5y ago
>This has happened a variety of times and reaching out usually gets a non response Name & shame
- cglan 5y ago
  Salesforce - Mulesoft subsidiary. Microsoft but they eventually got back to me 2 months later. Still disrespectful in my opinion Hashicorp
sys_64738 5y ago
I don't take that personally. If I don't hear anything within a period of time then I get they've moved on. There's no utility for them to be in contact anymore with me. It's unprofessional but I get why it occurs and don't feel slight.
- cglan 5y ago
  You should feel upset. It’s basic courtesy to say “we don’t want you”. This is not dating it’s literally a massive corporation it costs them nothing to send a rejection email instead of leaving you in purgatory

gorgoiler 5y ago

Interviewing me then offering me a role without an accompanying offer of compensation. Especially after being evasive about comp at every prior step. Your “competitive” salary turned out to be $65k, after I’d become gotten all excited about the role? Owch. You want to hear about my market research on the local employment market before you pitch a number? No: that’s your job. You want a salary range from me despite you having a 10x better grasp on the responsibilities of the role than I do, which also happens to be secret info in the negotiation because you never came up with a written job spec? Well. You are now at the back of my priority list of potential future employers I’m talking to. If you decide you want to hire me then, I’m sorry to tell say, the next move is for you to make me an offer. We can schedule another chat if you like but I’m just going to pitch why I’m the person for the job again, then wait for you to make me an offer. No, you also don’t get to know anything about my current salary.

itronitron 5y ago

Unfortunately, in a job interview it is very likely that the person being rude is doing that in order to test how you respond. I've witnessed it during a group interview and I lost all respect for the interviewer, who was a group manager, especially after they explained in the review meeting why they did it. Personally I think it is a lame tactic and that there are better ways to learn how a person adapts to a confusing social interaction.

MaxBarraclough 5y ago
> Unfortunately, in a job interview it is very likely that the person being rude is doing that in order to test how you respond See 'stress interview'. [0][1][2] (It's discouraging to see that walk out didn't make the cut for the advice list of either [0] or [1].) > Personally I think it is a lame tactic and that there are better ways to learn how a person adapts to a confusing social interaction. One could argue this discriminates against applicants with social disabilities. [0] https://www.interview-skills.co.uk/free-information/interview-guide/stress-interviews https://www.interview-skills.co.uk/free-information/intervie... [1] https://www.topinterview.co.uk/interview-advice/what-is-a-stress-interview https://www.topinterview.co.uk/interview-advice/what-is-a-st... [2] https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20190201-the-stress-interview-a-technique-that-goes-too-far https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20190201-the-stress-int...
amatecha 5y ago
Yeah seriously, interviews are stressful enough. Even managing one with calm and composure is already a major "plus" for any candidate IMO.
muttled 5y ago
Like how scammers intentionally use misspellings to filter for people likely to fall for the scam, maybe they're trying to see who can take abuse?

dtt101 5y ago

Saying that the interview is more of an ‘informal conversation’ then quickfiring 30 questions in an hour while not looking at the screen.

AtNightWeCode 5y ago

Patronizing interviewers. Have not met any myself but worked with that kind of people. People that start off an interview with a 30 min lesson why the interviewer is better than the candidate. The worst hiring though is when you are asked to take a code test and you can clearly see from the extent of the test that they want a POC for something. I was given a code test that was basically a complete MS paint. I did not do it and then the company complained about it. I did not even apply for the job in the first place. Some big companies…

kube-system 5y ago
Yeah, the most frustrating recruiting call I've ever had was someone like this. I was having a discussion with a recruiter about the company's software platform they had developed. Any time I said 'platform', the recruiter would interrupt me and say "no, it's an ecosystem". They were wrong anyway, the hiring company itself called it a "platform" on their own website. It was one of the strangest and most dead-end discussions I've ever had.

bad_interivewee 5y ago

have had a few of these experiences one interviewer was watching their laptop and typing (slack?) and made almost no eye contact the entire time. it started with dead silence for a bit, then "what questions do you have for me". and that question was repeated 2 or 3 times after I finished with my reply, then it was just over. another time, after the first 10 or so minutes of talking on the phone, the interviewer said "well I don't know if this department will open up, but you should try applying at company x or company y" and that was it. this was for a new department in the company - I assume they would not be interviewing if it was a long shot, and I was referred by an employee. pure waste of time. a couple other similar stories I am forgetting at the moment, then the usual ghosting/late arrivals/condescension about education and work history.

yjftsjthsd-h 5y ago
> one interviewer was watching their laptop and typing (slack?) and made almost no eye contact the entire time. it started with dead silence for a bit, then "what questions do you have for me". and that question was repeated 2 or 3 times after I finished with my reply, then it was just over. In this case it does sound like they weren't actually paying attention to you, but FWIW, when I interview people I have a checklist of questions[0] and take notes on my laptop so I would be typing and at least glancing at the screen. On the other hand, it's obvious that that's what I'm doing, not least because I tell candidates so. [0] Or at least topics that I want to make sure we cover.

wrnr 5y ago

Interviewer asked me if I wanted something to drink, and I was like: water is all good with me. He brings me a glass and I take a sip. The tast was absolutely foul, acidic with a taste I just couldn't place. In the most civilised way possible I spit the water back into the glass. Sorry I say, there must have been some mistake here, maybe some detergent left after cleaning. The interviewer looks horrified at me and acts all offended, rolls his eyes and mutters under his breath: It is just cucumber and rose pedal leaves, it's not like I would want to poison you. The interview continues with this foul stank in my mouth and I my head racing with who/what/why cucumbers? On the way out I pass by the kitchen and see this giant jar of water, something right out of a chemistry lab of a mad scientist, with cucumbers and rose pedals flouting in it.

gattr 5y ago
Interesting. I haven't seen it here in Europe, but there is such a jar in Mrs. Nguyen's nail salon in the TV series "Better Call Saul" [1]. (Well, I'm not sure about the rose petals.) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIg9WdWJoME https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIg9WdWJoME

jareklupinski 5y ago

a long time ago, I interviewed for a technical but still customer-facing position (think forward-sales engineer) for two hours the two interviewers basically took turns, one asking me specific things about my resume, while the other would make a show of how disinterested or bored they were. it was a bit comical to watch a 60-year old director enthusiastically check email, so I kind of picked up on this being one of those 'behavior tests' after being hired and witnessing the same behavior from our actual clients whenever we hemmed or hawed about anything on our company's sales sheet, I asked one of the interviewers (who had become my director) and they said basically the idea was to filter out the people who would have soon become angry at their own customers

geogra4 5y ago

About a month or so ago I had a very rude interview with the person who would have been my manager at a very large and well known FinTech company. I had already passed the phone screen, the 2/3rd rounds, and did well enough on the on-site to warrant a final interview to see if I was to make the cut - I was told it would be focused on the technical presentation I prepared as part of the on-site. The interview started off ok, just confirming the company I worked for and the industry I'm in. I had trusted the other interviewers at that company to be honest and ask questions in good faith and they all were for the most part. However, this specific interviewer used some leading questions in order to prove a point about how FinTech is far superior in complexity to the industry I worked in and I wouldn't be able to hang. We didn't talk much about my presentation. Very rude for a guy who had only been there 4 months and didn't come from fintech himself. I'm bitter about it but ultimately I wouldn't have wanted to work for him anyway.

mrjay42 5y ago

The use of the word "expert" FOR EVERYTHING. Something I always specify in interviews: being an expert at something, for me, means that I could write a book about it. So, I prefer to say "I am good at <this>", instead of saying "expert". The problem is this leads to unclear skill appreciation!! Like, yes, I spent the last 5 years coding partial differential equations in parallel mainly using C. Would I call myself an expert in C? No. Never. I am good at it? yes. So why is this rude? Because, in case you have sense of honesty and/or the simple inability to call yourself an expert about everything, this can lead to discussion where you have to explain "oh ok, I am not an expert at numerical analysis and solving PDE's but still it was a big part of my last position...so I am probably more of an expert compared to the 22 year old guy that just came out of school who PRETENDS he is an expert at this". --- The almost SYSTEMATICAL use of "C/C++" as if it's a thing. No, sorry, a thousand times "NO", being a C developer is a thing, being a C++ developer is another thing. It's possible to be both, but it's FAR from being systematical. It's as if we would see everywhere "Java/Javascript" -> see the heresy? So this is not exactly "rude" but terribly annoying having to go into details when answering questions about "C/C++" in interviews: "so, well, I am a good C developer but I am just ok at C++ because, you know? C and C++ are not the same thing AT ALL?"...seeing the sense of confusion in their eyes at that moment is really distressing. --- People from full-HR background trying to pretend they know something about the field because they know the words/keywords. You know? Like, I am not a biologist, I know the word "DNA" but would I, in front of a biologist that I am recruiting for some reasons, pretend that I KNOW what DNA is? No, I wouldn't and I shouldn't. Actually, maybe a good idea could be: -> test the communication skills of somebody: "Explain to me what is <this>" (DNA, for instance, or anything else). So, no, sorry it's not because you know the words "cloud" or "Python" or "server" that you are an expert and talk like you are one. ---- Companies/HR people/Business People trying to oversell the company, particularly going into the "we are so much a good-humane company". It's "rude" in the sense, that we all know that most of the time it's bullshit. And/or in any case, people claiming that are not the people you're gonna end up working with on a daily basis anyway. ---- Coding test for senior positions. I have more than 10 years of experience. Two master's degrees in Computer Science. And a PhD also in Computer Science. So, Yes. I. Can. Code. I also know that I am not "the best at coding". I am not trying to be the best at coding...because I am unable of doing so and also because...I am over 23? (or pick any age that would make sens to you) ---- Recruitment process that is solely composed of technical test or if you prefer, when the company is not actually recruiting a human being. I mean, on a not too big company (below 200 people), doing really advanced stuff (way above the typical software engineering kind of work), one could expect a company would try to NOT ONLY get the matching skills but also the matching personality.

tomcooks 5y ago

Answering with the following when I ask again (after they disappeared for months) for a salary range: "Thanks for the quick response, but I'd rather not move forward without hearing your salary requirements. Having asked a few times and still not received an answer, we're going to move on in another direction."

JoeAltmaier 5y ago

It's not rude to negotiate on salary. That thought is laced throughout these comments. Understand that when interviewing, work duties vs salary is the entire conversation. By definition it is not rude to perform that function.

jgwil2 5y ago
No one is claiming that it is rude to negotiate on salary. What people are claiming is rude is when companies allow candidates to go through a lengthy interviewing process when they already know that their budget doesn't align with the candidate's asking price. That is a waste of everyone's time.
- JoeAltmaier 5y ago
  ...not matching what I read. Folks giving up after the first (low) offer, only to get a better one a few days later. This is how it works. It can take a little time. If you get butt-hurt on the first offer and go off somewhere else, you're leaving money on the table.

rkk3 5y ago

Several rounds in the take home was assigned 100% verbally ... and then after submitting the take home, not even bothering to send a rejection email.

maerF0x0 5y ago

probably the biggest rude thing I encounter is people who have take home assignments that "only take an hour" and in reality is total bullshit and it's like 10+ hrs. Like implement a LRU cache as a http API that also implements the redis protocol... And if you ever complain about the time they often say "other candidates found it fine" (c'mon use some common sense, people lie about how long it takes them)

clusterhacks 5y ago

Interviewer fell asleep in front of me 30 minutes into a 60 min interview. It was a morning interview that started at 9 AM.

szszrk 5y ago

Oh, I've got a few! Interviewer was late 45 minutes. When he came he was angry that I was in the wrong place. It was a closed office, invitations only, I was guided by a front desk lady who knew what I came for. They rejected me, as they forgot to mention they need some fiber channel storage admin. I didn't even heard names of those things before, as stated earlier by phone. They called again few months later, said it was a mistake and that person left company. Proposed another meeting. I politely denied. Went through quite long process (also used 2 days off for that) that was actually a lot of fun, to inform me at the end they have budget for 60% of what I asked for earlier. That was lower then my first job ever in IT. Few months later called again saying they raised the budget and can afford me now. Wasted another day off to be informed that new budget was around 65% of my asking... Interviewer forced me to arrange a day off at old company to inform me they don't have the job (their client had budget cuts they were surprised with), in person. Then pretended it's not him while I waited in the hallway. Details: My interviewer arranged a welcome day on my future-company on Monday, more than a week ahead. I was supposed to meet the team, do some internal trainings, get remote logins maybe. I took a full day off just for that and he knew about it. Came as arranged, office was empty, doors closed. Interviewer walked past me a few times without saying hi while I waited for almost an hour on an empty hallway. Then suddenly invited in, said they don't have that position due to lost client and we'll figure out what to do later on. It took 3 minutes. I already quit my old job. We tore our signed contract after a few weeks and pretended it never happened, but it took me several months to clean that mess up.

ACow_Adonis 5y ago

I dislike bad faith questions or tests. I took part in a Facebook recruitment competition (this was many years ago when it was less obvious how evil they were going to be). They gave us some data and some notional analytics task and your goal was to maximise a certain prediction metric. The catch was that they had errors/repetitions in the data such that you could exploit it to maximise the prediction score by methods largely unconnected to the notional analytics. This allowed some to get scores miles above accuracy reported in the literature, to the point where it wasn't physically possible to do that well. I'm still not convinced it wasn't an error on their part or that it wasn't an inside job. I discovered this and basically made the claim that some of the other scores others were getting weren't possible, and in the process of chasing down what the "cheaters" were doing, they came clean with the "oh, it's part of the job to assume/find such problems in the data and exploit it". So then everyone changed their models to include this little hack and the competition continued on the remainder of the data after wasting most of our time. but it left a really bad taste in my mouth. first of all, the metric is now meaningless in this case, so no, it's not an analysts job to exploit errors to maximise a meaningless metric. secondly, just do things in good faith: if you give me a data set and tell me it's a certain thing, I'm going to believe you. if it's dodgy or you're interested in OTHER things, then tell me so we can stop fucking around, because this isn't real life and I've got no idea what contrived thing it is you're looking for in this finite and time restricted exercise. if you want me to find some contrived thing, then at least tell me that's part of it. gotchas where they're fucking with you or dishonest about what they're actually doing in the process are the worst. especially if they're actually incompetent, made a mistake and they're too proud to admit that fact.

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vanusa 5y ago

They flat out lie during the negotiation process. You get asked to sit in a room for a "couple of minutes". Ends up being more like 30. You get there, the people you're supposed to talk to "aren't available", they have some other random underlings talk to to keep you busy. You're talking to them, they act bored or distracted. They play with their phones, take calls. They whiteboard you clearly without any preparation. Sometimes pulling a problem more or less out of their ass (logically incoherent and/or mathematically intractable). They give you lengthy take-home problems, which would clearly take 4x as long to do in an actual work environment. And surprise, they don't set up the environment right, or the data you're supposed to go fetch just isn't there anymore (or has changed), or the requirements are just plain incoherent. Oh and then they ghost you.

genezeta 5y ago

This happened about Q1 2019 or something like that IIRC. I went into the interview with a couple of red flags already. The main one is that the person at the recruiting company told me something like I should go in "with an open mind and calm", that they were very "harsh" and they used to do "very tough interviews" and that other interviewees had commented they didn't like it much. Anyway, I went in. I met with the Chief People Officer and the Head of Engineering, and yes, right from the start they were... I don't know, maybe they just had a somewhat impatient tone. Not too bad. But as we went on, they got increasingly so. They tended to cut me short on all the questions they asked. I know I sometimes do talk too much, so I just tried not to and that's it. It was... a bit weird, but just that. It didn't feel that tough. Then they asked about me having imparted some classes and trainings... "Maybe, 5, 6 people?" me> Sometimes more, like 10 or 20. It depends. them> Yeah, so then you feel a knot in your stomach, right? me> Ah... no, not rea... them> What are you, made of stone?? me> Well, no, but I've done it many times so I don't rea... They kept interrupting and trying to lead me to say whatever things they wanted. Since I wasn't, they got increasingly aggressive, sometimes raising their voice unexpectedly. They took turns at interrupting, at repeatedly asking some things, etc. They always asked things in the negative e.g. "you surely have never worked with..." or "you probably only know basic JavaScript, right?", and most of that was already in my resume so I had to answer by correcting them a lot. After this went on for maybe 30-40 minutes, they finally got enough of it and offered if there was anything I wanted to ask. They hadn't really told me much at all about their project, technology... really about anything, expect for a very generic overview. So I did want to ask. I started with something I thought easy. me> So, you mentioned this is a Java project; is it Spring based? them> That's none of your business. me> Sorry? them> You don't need to know. You'll be working on the front so whatever. me> Well, I would like to have a better overview of the project. Knowing the technologies may give me a better idea of the general state of the code... them> THE CODE IS FINE. We wrote it and it's great code. me> Yes, of course, sorry. I didn't mean it that as not being good, just get an idea of the age, the general structure... Very reluctantly, they explained that it was a Struts (1.2.x) application. But not really. Apparently they had sort of forked Struts internally to do some "tricky stuff" from the JSPs, or whatever. They were really unwilling to explain much at all and the little I got out of them was with constant snorting and chuckling at anything I asked clarification for, like I was waiting their precious time. I would have but didn't dare to ask much else. And I had lost all interest anyway. So we ended the interview after a few more minutes. I kindly said goodbye. The CPO was amiable enough to shake my hand -again, this was mid-2019- but the Head of Engineering didn't feel like doing that and simply remained seating looking at something or other on their phone. This would have been weird enough. The next day I spoke to the person from the recruiting company. I told her, without going into details, that I felt they had been quite aggressive, even to the point of being rude. She laughed nervously and agreed that they could sometimes be "a bit abrupt". Anyway, I told her, I wasn't interested; I didn't think any good could come out of that. KTHXBAI and that's it, I thought. But somehow, it seems they asked the recruiter for my number and, for whatever reason, she agreed and gave it to them. So about a couple of hours later, an unknown number calls and it's the Head of Engineering. They are... well, not cordial, but at least a tiny bit more agreeable than the day before. They ask what I think, about the project, the position, the offer... me> Ah, sorry. I already told [recruiter] from [recruiting company]. After our interview yesterday, I don't think this is what I am looking for. The project seems nice but at this moment I'm not interest... them> OH, YEAH?! Well, then just know that WE'RE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU EITHER!! And click, they just hanged up on me.

waylandsmithers 5y ago

In my most recent job search: 1) Acting surprised I wasn't going to do the coding exercise in Java, when Java wasn't on my resume 2) Not believing that JavaScript doesn't have some of the string functions that Java has 3) Ghosting instead of formally saying they aren't moving forward edit: From my working experience though, sometimes HR and recruiting are really in their own world and not indicative of the whole company. At a past job that was the most amazing place work, recruiting would do things like double booking people on multiple simultaneous interviews, sending meeting invites at night for the next morning, refusing to cancel interviews for candidates interviewing for jobs that were already filled "just in case" and other fun adventures we had to figure out how to try to navigate in the moment.

schmookeeg 5y ago

Had an interviewer boast that she tried to intern at the company, was rejected, and then just never left - "LOL!" (I smiled politely, while horrified) ... while holding "director of HR" title no less. Even more surreal when I took the job, later decided it wasn't my cuppa, and had the exit interview conducted by this same person -- and having to sit there while she provided me absolutely false information about transitioning, asking me to sign a "hush" contract on my way out, and then later not providing final payroll until WAY after the state requirements. Eep. Of course, the joke's on me, they IPO'ed recently and she probably has twice my net worth now. :) C'est la vie!

akamia 5y ago

I interviewed at Microsoft around 2010 and had a horrible interview with a Principal Engineering Manager in Bing. He was my last interviewer of the day and the interview started at 5 PM. I had been there since 10 AM and the only "break" I had was a lunch interview so I was exhausted but I was going to give it my all. Since it was the last interview and he was a manager, I was expecting a culture fit/soft skill interview but it was more whiteboarding. I was surprised but I went with it. I asked some clarifying questions and then I started walking through my solution on the whiteboard. After a few minutes I turned around to ask him a question and he was staring out the window day dreaming. I said "excuse me" and repeated my question. He gave me a brief answer and then turned to stare out the window again. He did this through the entire interview. I was shocked. I understand that it was the end of the day but it was his choice to have the interview loop keep going. I had given them an entire day and he didn't even respect me enough to give me an hour of his attention. I didn't get the job but I'm sure I dodged a bullet if that was what the management was like for that team.