It's a matter of perspective and perspective is practiced. You are focused on positive outcomes, but those aren't under your control. Your focus should be on a

It's a matter of perspective and perspective is practiced. You are focused on positive outcomes, but those aren't under your control. Your focus should be on actions that you would expect to have positive consequences. If you've done those, you're personally off the hook as far as the outcome is concerned. Since you are only holding yourself accountable to the actions and not the outcome, you might then have the energy to fix it later when the outcomes aren't positive.